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Ascultam zilele trecute, \u00een ma\u0219in\u0103, o emisiune \u0219i a am auzit un prezentator radio care, c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a luat r\u0103mas bun de la ascult\u0103tori, a spus \u201cave\u021bi grij\u0103 de voi, dar, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd de ceilal\u021bi\u201d (sau ceva de genul acesta, nu \u00eemi mai amintesc exact cuvintele folosite). Iar eu am r\u0103mas uimit\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu am \u00een\u021beles ce a vrut s\u0103 spun\u0103 (nu am \u00een\u021beles ce mesaj a vrut s\u0103 transmit\u0103).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dac\u0103 nu avem grij\u0103 de noi, dac\u0103 ne neglij\u0103m, devenim depresivi, nervo\u0219i, irascibili \u0219i ar\u0103t\u0103m celorlal\u021bi cea mai ur\u00e2t\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 a noastr\u0103. Cum am putea, atunci c\u00e2nd nu ne sim\u021bim bine, s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de al\u021bii sau s\u0103 \u00eei ajut\u0103m (s\u0103 \u00eei sprijinim) pe al\u021bii, dac\u0103 noi nu suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am mai auzit, de-a lungul vie\u021bii, expresii de acest gen: c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd de cei dragi \u0219i abia apoi de noi, dar chiar nu le \u00een\u021beleg \u0219i nu le-am \u00een\u021beles vreodat\u0103. Nu este vorba de egoism, ci este vorba de ceea ce putem oferi atunci c\u00e2nd nu suntem bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 expresia ar trebui s\u0103 sune pu\u021bin altfel: \u201cAve\u021bi grij\u0103 de voi, ca s\u0103 pute\u021bi avea grij\u0103 \u0219i de cei dragi\u201d. A\u0219a parc\u0103 este mai aproape de adev\u0103r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu este normal s\u0103 ne transform\u0103m \u00een ni\u0219te instrumente pe care le folosesc, uneori, cei dragi \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 le dovedim c\u0103 \u0219i noi avem nevoie de \u00een\u021belegere, de bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103, de aten\u021bie \u0219i de toate celelalte lucruri pe care le cer ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unii oameni s-au obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 se pun\u0103 pe ei pe locul doi (chiar nu mai conteaz\u0103 de ce fac acest lucru, ci doar c\u0103 \u00eel fac) \u0219i s\u0103 li se par\u0103 normal acest lucru. Sunt acei oameni care tr\u0103iesc prin al\u021bii \u0219i pentru al\u021bii, care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 pentru ei, care nu mai \u0219tiu cine sunt pentru c\u0103 s-au pierdut pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i cu mult timp \u00een urm\u0103. Sunt cei obi\u0219nui\u021bi s\u0103 fie sacrifica\u021bi, sunt cei care accept\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu tot ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi avem \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 astfel de oameni, iar uneori, m\u0103 trezesc \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 dac\u0103 ace\u0219ti oameni \u0219tiu de ce au tr\u0103it. M\u0103 \u00eentreb ce fel de via\u021b\u0103 o fi aceea \u00een care tu nu ai un loc al t\u0103u pentru c\u0103 nu ai \u0219tiut s\u0103 \u021bi-l ceri sau nu ai \u0219tiut s\u0103 spui nu atunci c\u00e2nd cineva drag te-a rugat ceva, chiar dac\u0103 pentru tine \u00eensemna s\u0103 faci un efort mare.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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