{"id":2126,"date":"2024-02-15T18:01:55","date_gmt":"2024-02-15T16:01:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2126"},"modified":"2024-02-15T18:01:56","modified_gmt":"2024-02-15T16:01:56","slug":"ce-facem-cand-consecintele-minciunilor-noastre-sunt-mai-mari-sau-mai-grave-decat-credeam-sau-ne-asteptam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2126","title":{"rendered":"Ce facem c\u00e2nd consecin\u021bele minciunilor noastre sunt mai mari sau mai grave dec\u00e2t credeam (sau ne a\u0219teptam)?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 am min\u021bit \u0219i ne asum\u0103m consecin\u021belor ac\u021biunilor noastre (indiferent c\u00e2t de mult ne vor afecta \u0219i c\u00e2t de mult vom avea de suferit din aceast\u0103 cauz\u0103?) sau \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 d\u0103m vina pe altcineva \u0219i s\u0103 fugim de responsabilitate?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orice minciun\u0103, oric\u00e2t de mic\u0103 \u0219i nevinovat\u0103 ar fi ea (am scris \u00een august 2023 despre minciunile mici care ajung s\u0103 ne conduc\u0103 via\u021ba – https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1840<\/a>), are consecin\u021be. Chiar dac\u0103 nu vrem s\u0103 le recunoa\u0219tem sau s\u0103 le vedem, ele exist\u0103. \u0218i zdruncin\u0103, de obicei, \u00eencrederea celui min\u021bit \u00een cel care l-a min\u021bit, dar \u0219i \u00een ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar dac\u0103 la micile minciuni cu consecin\u021be pu\u021bine, lucrurile se pot rezolva simplu, fiind vorba, uneori, doar o sincop\u0103 \u00een comunicare, la minciunile care ajung s\u0103 afecteze mai multe persoane \u0219i s\u0103 schimbe rela\u021bii, este mult mai complicat. Pentru c\u0103, de multe ori, nu putem (nu avem cum) s\u0103 \u0219tim c\u00e2t de u\u0219or pot fi r\u0103ni\u021bi unii oameni \u0219i c\u00e2t de mult vor avea de suferit din cauza lucrurilor pe care le-am spus (sau le-am f\u0103cut).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a c\u0103 revin la \u00eentrebarea din titlul articolului: ce facem c\u00e2nd consecin\u021bele minciunilor noastre sunt mai grave dec\u00e2t ne a\u0219teptam?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-o astfel de situa\u021bie, suntem preg\u0103ti\u021bi s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem adev\u0103rul \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eendrept\u0103m ceea ce este gre\u0219it, cu riscul de a pierde repsectul \u0219i \u00eencrederea persoanelor dragi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau nu recunoa\u0219tem nimic \u0219i c\u0103ut\u0103m vinova\u021bi de serviciu, pentru c\u0103 nu putem s\u0103 accept\u0103m c\u0103, din cauza noastr\u0103, am putea pierde lucruri (\u0219i oameni) dragi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau recunoa\u0219tem par\u021bial minciuna, prelu\u00e2nd o parte din vin\u0103, dar justific\u00e2ndu-ne foarte riguros implicarea \u00een minciun\u0103 \u0219i neaccept\u00e2nd \u00eentreaga vin\u0103 pentru ceea ce am zis sau f\u0103cut?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pare ciudat \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 sens s\u0103 vorbim despre minciuni cu consecin\u021be grave f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 avem un exemplu concret, doar c\u0103, fiecare dintre noi are propria percep\u021bie asupra lucrurilor, asupra sentimentelor, emo\u021biilor \u0219i asupra termenilor \u0219i nu a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 dau exemple pe care unii le vor considera prea pu\u021bin importante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred c\u0103 adev\u0103rata problem\u0103 (\u00eentrebare) este dac\u0103 suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 ne asum\u0103m consecin\u021bele unei minciuni. Adic\u0103 dac\u0103 suntem destul de maturi \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eenfrunt\u0103m consecin\u021bele cuvintelor \u0219i ac\u021biunilor noastre. Destul de maturi \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem pe loc, s\u0103 nu fugim, s\u0103 nu distragem aten\u021bia de la ce am zis (ca s\u0103 sc\u0103p\u0103m de vin\u0103) \u0219i s\u0103 accept\u0103m toate lucrurile care ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 pentru c\u0103 am f\u0103cut ceva gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 am min\u021bit \u0219i ne asum\u0103m consecin\u021belor ac\u021biunilor noastre (indiferent c\u00e2t de mult ne vor afecta \u0219i c\u00e2t de mult vom avea de suferit din aceast\u0103 cauz\u0103?) sau \u00eencerc\u0103m …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2126"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2126"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2126\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2127,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2126\/revisions\/2127"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2126"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2126"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2126"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}