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Privind \u00een jurul meu, v\u0103d oameni mereu sup\u0103ra\u021bi pe ceilal\u021bi, mereu deranja\u021bi de ceva, mereu ata\u0219a\u021bi de emo\u021bii negative. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai fim buni, s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim frumos \u0219i s\u0103 credem c\u0103 lumea are \u0219i multe p\u0103r\u021bi pozitive. Ne concentr\u0103m pe partea negativ\u0103 a vie\u021bii, ne consum\u0103m energia cu aceste lucruri \u0219i le pierdem din vedere pe cele frumoase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Azi, m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103, oferind \u00een\u021belegere oamenilor din jur, ace\u0219tia devin mai binevoitori \u0219i mai aten\u021bi la ceea ce spun sau la ceea ce le cer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 am uitat cu to\u021bii s\u0103 oferim bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne punem \u00een locul celuilalt. Am devenit exigen\u021bi, critici, judec\u0103tori, r\u0103zbun\u0103tori, purt\u0103tori de\/lupt\u0103tori \u00een misiuni pe care nu le cunoa\u0219tem prea bine \u0219i uit\u0103m s\u0103 fim oameni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uit\u0103m s\u0103 oferim o vorb\u0103 bun\u0103 celui din fa\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uit\u0103m s\u0103 z\u00e2mbim oamenilor care par tri\u0219ti sau neferici\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uit\u0103m c\u0103, la fel ca noi, \u0219i cel c\u0103ruia ne adres\u0103m pentru rezolvarea unei probleme sau pentru a ob\u021bine o informa\u021bie are probleme similare cu ale noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Avem preten\u021bii \u0219i a\u0219tept\u0103ri, dar uit\u0103m c\u0103 suntem cu to\u021bii oameni. Deci imperfec\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unul din sensurile cuv\u00e2ntului \u00een\u021belegere, a\u0219a cum apare \u00een Dic\u021bionarul Explicativ al Limbii Rom\u00e2ne pe care \u00eel am, dar \u0219i \u00een dex online este bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103, compasiune fa\u021b\u0103 de situa\u021bia cuiva, iar bun\u0103voin\u021ba este purtarea sau atitudinea binevoitoare fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva, \u00eeng\u0103duin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da, cred c\u0103 am uitat s\u0103 fim \u00eeng\u0103duitori unii cu ceilal\u021bi. \u00cen v\u00e2ltoarea vie\u021bii cotidiene, avem senza\u021bia c\u0103 doar noi \u0219i nevoile noastre sunt importante. Sau c\u0103 doar atingerea standardelor sociale conteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uit\u0103m c\u0103 societatea este alc\u0103tuit\u0103 din oameni, nu din institu\u021bii. \u0218i nici din teorii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-a\u0219 dori ca oamenii s\u0103 fie mai aten\u021bi la ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een jurul lor \u0219i mai ales cu oamenii din jurul lor. Dac\u0103 ne dorim s\u0103 fim \u00een\u021bele\u0219i de ceilal\u021bi, trebuie s\u0103 \u00eei \u00een\u021belegem \u0219i noi. Nu doar noi cont\u0103m. Ci to\u021bi cont\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Azi m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 oferind cuiva pu\u021bin\u0103 r\u0103bdare \u0219i pu\u021bin\u0103 \u00een\u021belegere, am reu\u0219it s\u0103 fac acea persoan\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 asculte \u0219i s\u0103 fie mai receptiv\u0103 la solicitarea mea. \u0218i mi-am dat seama c\u0103 efortul meu a fost destul de mic, dar rezultatul a fost important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i atunci, de ce nu avem r\u0103bdare \u0219i, mai ales, \u00een\u021belegere (\u00eeng\u0103duin\u021b\u0103, dac\u0103 vi se pare c\u0103 sun\u0103 mai bine) pentru ceilal\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce \u00eei trat\u0103m ca pe ni\u0219te lucruri de care le folosim, c\u00e2nd putem s\u0103 le oferim pu\u021bin\u0103 bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ob\u021binem un om care ne va fi al\u0103turi de c\u00e2te ori vom avea nevoie de el?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai comunic\u0103m unii cu ceilal\u021bi? Sau, poate c\u0103 \u00eentrebarea corect\u0103 este, de ce nu mai vrem s\u0103 mai comunic\u0103m cu ceilal\u021bi? S-ar putea ca ceea ce c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103m \u00een plan emo\u021bional s\u0103 fie mult mai important dec\u00eet ceea ce c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103m \u00een plan material.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Privind \u00een jurul meu, v\u0103d oameni mereu sup\u0103ra\u021bi pe ceilal\u021bi, mereu deranja\u021bi de ceva, mereu ata\u0219a\u021bi de emo\u021bii negative. Nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai fim buni, s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim frumos \u0219i …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2050"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2050"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2050\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2051,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2050\/revisions\/2051"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2050"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2050"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2050"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}