{"id":2014,"date":"2023-12-18T18:14:58","date_gmt":"2023-12-18T16:14:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2014"},"modified":"2023-12-18T18:14:58","modified_gmt":"2023-12-18T16:14:58","slug":"de-ce-mint-oamenii-atat-de-usor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=2014","title":{"rendered":"De ce mint oamenii at\u00e2t de u\u0219or?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0103 tot \u00eentreb, de c\u00e2teva zile, acest lucru. Cum de le este at\u00e2t de simplu, unor oameni s\u0103 mint\u0103? S\u0103 spun\u0103 lucruri neadev\u0103rate sau s\u0103 manipuleze informa\u021biile pe acre le de\u021bin astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 aib\u0103 de c\u0103\u0219tigat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 tr\u0103im vremuri \u00een care este u\u0219or s\u0103 ascundem cine suntem, s\u0103 nu spunem ce credem, s\u0103 cosmetiz\u0103m imaginea noastr\u0103 public\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 accept\u0103m u\u0219or c\u0103 suntem min\u021bi\u021bi sau c\u00e2nd suntem min\u021bi\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Omul a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 se adapteze mediului \u0219i a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 fac\u0103 tot ce poate pentru a-i fi lui bine, iar dac\u0103 acest lucru \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 mint\u0103, nu prea are mustr\u0103ri de con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i: cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu adev\u0103rul? Mai avem nevoie de adev\u0103r \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103? Mai \u0219tim s\u0103 facem diferen\u021ba \u00eentre adev\u0103r, minciun\u0103 sau praf \u00een ochi? Sau tr\u0103im vremuri \u00een care nu mai conteaz\u0103 ce este adev\u0103rat \u0219i ce este fals?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-e dor de oameni sinceri, de oameni care spun ce g\u00e2ndesc, de oameni care nu se ascund \u00een spatele altora sau \u00een spatele cuvintelor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i am scris mai multe articole despre sinceritate \u0219i a fi sincer (\u00een aprilie 2022 despre sinceritate <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=854\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=854<\/a>, \u00een octombrie 2023 m\u0103 \u00eentrebam dac\u0103 mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim sinceri <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1929\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1929<\/a>, \u00een noiembrie 2022 dac\u0103 mai \u0219tiu oamenii s\u0103 fie sinceri <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1273\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1273<\/a>, iar \u00een ianuarie 2023 c\u00e2t de sinceri suntem atuci c\u00e2nd cineva ne cere p\u0103rerea <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1428\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1428<\/a>), dar parc\u0103 tot mai r\u0103m\u00e2n ceva de spus. \u0218i de scris.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probabil m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 u\u0219urin\u021ba cu care oamenii ascund lucruri sau creeaz\u0103 impresii gre\u0219ite despre propria persoan\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cemi este greu s\u0103 rela\u021bionez cu oameni pe care \u00eei simt fal\u0219i sau superficiali, prea pre\u021bio\u0219i sau care \u00ee\u0219i dau prea mult\u0103 importan\u021b\u0103. Am obosit s\u0103 trec prin filtrul meu aparen\u021bele din jur \u0219i oamenii care sunt \u00een stare s\u0103 fac\u0103 orice pentru a p\u0103stra respectivele aparen\u021be. Este prea mare efortul s\u0103 caut omul din spatele imaginii pe care \u0219i-a construit-o \u0219i \u00een care a investit at\u00e2tea (timp, bani, energie etc).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-a\u0219 dori o lume \u00een care s\u0103 fim sinceri \u0219i cinsti\u021bi cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, \u0219i apoi cu ceilal\u021bi. O lume \u00een care s\u0103 nu mai sim\u021bim at\u00e2t de acut nevoia de confirmare \u0219i validare din partea societ\u0103\u021bii, o lume \u00een care s\u0103 nu ne fie fric\u0103 (ru\u0219ine?) s\u0103 fim noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im via\u021ba a\u0219a cum credem de cuviin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu am aflat de ce mint at\u00e2t de u\u0219or oamenii de azi \u0219i nici de ce \u00ee\u0219i v\u00e2nd sufletul at\u00e2t de repede \u0219i at\u00e2t de u\u0219or, dar poate voi afla r\u0103spunsuri \u00een viitor de la oameni care vor fi dispu\u0219i s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i cu sinceritate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u0103 tot \u00eentreb, de c\u00e2teva zile, acest lucru. Cum de le este at\u00e2t de simplu, unor oameni s\u0103 mint\u0103? S\u0103 spun\u0103 lucruri neadev\u0103rate sau s\u0103 manipuleze informa\u021biile pe acre le &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2014"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2014"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2014\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2015,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2014\/revisions\/2015"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2014"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2014"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2014"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}