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Dup\u0103 ce gre\u0219im, dup\u0103 ce accept\u0103m c\u0103 am gre\u0219it \u0219i am afectat, prin ce am spus sau ce am f\u0103cut, pe cineva, \u0219tim s\u0103 ne \u00eendrept\u0103m gre\u0219eala? Adic\u0103 dup\u0103 ce recunoa\u0219tem fa\u021b\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine c\u0103 am gre\u0219it \u0219i dup\u0103 ce ne asum\u0103m consecin\u021bele faptelor noastre, c\u00e2nd st\u0103 \u00een puterea noastr\u0103 s\u0103 facem ceva ca s\u0103 \u00eendrept\u0103m ce am f\u0103cut gre\u0219it (\u0219i chiar dac\u0103 nu st\u0103 \u00een puterea noastr\u0103, tot ar trebui s\u0103 facem ceva \u00een acest sens), \u0219tim cum s\u0103 \u00eendrept\u0103m r\u0103ul f\u0103cut? Adic\u0103 suntem dispu\u0219i s\u0103 ne c\u0103lc\u0103m pe orgolii, s\u0103 ne umilim, s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 am gre\u0219it \u00een fa\u021ba unor persoane care ar putea s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i piard\u0103 \u00eencrederea \u00een noi, iar acest lucru s\u0103 ne afecteze (pe termen scurt sau pe termen lung)?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De cele mai multe ori nu este de ajuns s\u0103 mergem la persoana respectiv\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 am gre\u0219it. De\u0219i gre\u0219eala recunoscut\u0103 este pe jum\u0103tate iertat\u0103 (cred c\u0103 voi scrie un articol separat despre aceast\u0103 expresie), uneori nu este de ajuns. Mai este nevoie s\u0103 dovedim c\u0103 regret\u0103m ce am f\u0103cut, c\u0103 ne pare r\u0103u c\u0103 am r\u0103nit pe cineva sau c\u0103 am cauzat un prejudiciu cumva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Suntem destul de puternici s\u0103 facem toate aceste lucruri sau ne oprim la a recunoa\u0219te ce am f\u0103cut \u0219i a ne ar\u0103ta regretele pentru fapta respectiv\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De\u0219i nu pare greu (privit din afar\u0103), \u00een realitate ne trebuie mult\u0103 putere \u0219i mult\u0103 voin\u021b\u0103 ca s\u0103 \u00eendrept\u0103m gre\u0219elile comise. De multe ori, nu suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 vedem unele din consecin\u021bele faptelor noastre \u0219i, de\u0219i pe unele le accept\u0103m, ni le asum\u0103m mai u\u0219or, cu unele ne este foarte greu. Pentru c\u0103 a recunoa\u0219te c\u0103 ai gre\u0219it \u0219i a \u00eencerca s\u0103 \u00eendrep\u021bi r\u0103ul f\u0103cut \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 recuno\u0219ti c\u0103 e\u0219ti om, c\u0103 e\u0219ti supus gre\u0219elii, c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti acel superom pe care \u00eel crede lumea. Iar unii recunosc foarte greu astfel de lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centotdeauna mi s-a p\u0103rut c\u0103 cel care \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 o gre\u0219eal\u0103 f\u0103cut\u0103 d\u0103 dovad\u0103 de curaj. Pentru c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie foarte puternic pentru a putea sta fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 cu cel care a avut de suferit \u00een urma gre\u0219elii lui \u0219i a recunoa\u0219te c\u0103 ceea ce a f\u0103cut (sau a zis, de multe ori trecem foarte repede peste cuvintele care ne ies din gur\u0103, de\u0219i, de multe ori putem jigni foarte u\u0219or prin ceea ce spunem) este gre\u0219it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Problema gre\u0219elilor m-a inspirat \u0219i \u00een scrierea altor articole postate pe blog. A\u0219a c\u0103 am scris despre gre\u0219eli \u0219i consecin\u021be \u00een iunie 2022 (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1036<\/a>), despre persoanele mature care \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 din propriile gre\u0219eli \u00een aprilie 2022 (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=856<\/a>) \u0219i m-am \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m din gre\u0219eli \u00een iulie 2023 (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1773<\/a>).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dup\u0103 ce gre\u0219im, dup\u0103 ce accept\u0103m c\u0103 am gre\u0219it \u0219i am afectat, prin ce am spus sau ce am f\u0103cut, pe cineva, \u0219tim s\u0103 ne \u00eendrept\u0103m gre\u0219eala? Adic\u0103 dup\u0103 ce …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1953"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1953"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1954,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1953\/revisions\/1954"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}