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\u00cen societatea de azi se vorbe\u0219te mult despre autocunoa\u0219tere, despre dezvoltare personal\u0103, despre consiliere, dar se vorbe\u0219te mai pu\u021bin despre cum s\u0103 ne \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103m cu noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i cu lucruri pe care le-am f\u0103cut, dar pentru care ne sim\u021bim vinova\u021bi, cum s\u0103 ne iubim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine, cum s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi, cum s\u0103 comunic\u0103m cu ceilal\u021bi \u0219i cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, cum s\u0103 avem \u00eencredere \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine, cum s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am cunoscut mul\u021bi oameni cu o stim\u0103 de sine sc\u0103zut\u0103 \u0219i care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i tr\u0103iasc\u0103 via\u021ba, oameni care p\u0103reau a fi \u00eemplini\u021bi \u0219i p\u0103reau a avea tot ce \u00ee\u0219i doreau. \u0218i totu\u0219i, dincolo de aparen\u021be, acei oameni nu aveau \u00eencredere \u00een ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i, se sim\u021beau vinova\u021bi pentru diferite lucruri \u0219i nu \u0219tiau s\u0103 se respecte pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
DEX-ul define\u0219te respectul ca atitudine sau sentiment de stim\u0103, de considera\u021bie sau de pre\u021buire deosebit\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva sau de ceva; deferen\u021b\u0103; venera\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 ne pre\u021buim \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pe noi \u0219i apoi pe ceilal\u021bi sau diferite lucruri. Problema este c\u0103, \u00een lumea de azi, c\u00e2nd alerg\u0103m dup\u0103 ob\u021binerea at\u00e2tor lucruri care s\u0103 ne asigure confort, uit\u0103m s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine, uit\u0103m s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i nu \u0219tim s\u0103 ne respect\u0103m pe noi \u00een\u0219ine. Tot timpul ne punem pe noi pe ultimul loc, acord\u00e2nd aten\u021bie (prioritate?) altor persoane sau lucruri \u0219i ne trezim, la un moment dat, c\u0103 nu ne mai \u00een\u021belegem cu nimeni \u0219i c\u0103 nu ne mai place nimic. Nu ne mai reg\u0103sim \u00een via\u021ba pe care ne-am construit-o cu at\u00e2ta efort \u0219i ajungem \u00een pragul depresiei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 ne mai oprim din a alerga dup\u0103 ce ne impune societatea \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 afl\u0103m ce ne dorim noi cu adev\u0103rat \u0219i ce facem pentru a ob\u021bine aceste lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ca s\u0103 ne pre\u021buim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine trebuie s\u0103 avem \u00eencredere \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine, trebuie s\u0103 fim \u00eemp\u0103ca\u021bi cu noi \u00een\u0219ine (cu alegerile pe care le-am f\u0103cut de-a lungul vie\u021bii \u0219i cu ce am f\u0103cut bine sau mai pu\u021bin bine p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een prezent), s\u0103 ne iert\u0103m, s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi, s\u0103 ne d\u0103m voie s\u0103 fim ferici\u021bi, s\u0103 fim recunosc\u0103tori pentru ce avem, s\u0103 ne \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bim via\u021ba, s\u0103 \u00eei accept\u0103m pe ceilal\u021bi a\u0219a cum sunt etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Depinde doar de noi s\u0103 ne pre\u021buim. \u0218i nu este foarte greu s\u0103 facem acest lucru. Dac\u0103 noi nu ne respect\u0103m, cum ne-ar putea respecta ceilal\u021bi? Sau de ce ne-ar respecta al\u021bii?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00cen societatea de azi se vorbe\u0219te mult despre autocunoa\u0219tere, despre dezvoltare personal\u0103, despre consiliere, dar se vorbe\u0219te mai pu\u021bin despre cum s\u0103 ne \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103m cu noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i cu lucruri …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1911"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1911"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1911\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1912,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1911\/revisions\/1912"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1911"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1911"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1911"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}