{"id":1903,"date":"2023-10-01T14:01:36","date_gmt":"2023-10-01T11:01:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1903"},"modified":"2023-10-01T14:01:36","modified_gmt":"2023-10-01T11:01:36","slug":"de-ce-oamenii-traiesc-aleg-sa-traiasca-vietile-altora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1903","title":{"rendered":"De ce oamenii tr\u0103iesc (aleg s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103) vie\u021bile altora?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tr\u0103im perioada de timp \u00een care avem acces la o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de informa\u021bii de tot felul (din care putem selecta ce ne intereseaz\u0103), dar \u00een care g\u0103sim \u0219i o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de modele de vie\u021bi de succes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mai nou, fiecare om care ajunge bogat public\u0103 o carte despre cum a ajuns acolo unde este acum \u0219i d\u0103 cumva recomand\u0103ri sau linii de urmat, ca \u0219i cum oricine altcineva care ar face pa\u0219ii pe care i-a f\u0103cut el ar putea ajunge unde este el. Ca \u0219i idee, nu e rea. Este interesant s\u0103 vezi cum cineva a evoluat \u0219i a ajuns \u00een medii \u00een care la un moment dat doar visa s\u0103 ajung\u0103. P\u00e2n\u0103 aici lucrurile sunt ok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Problema apare atunci c\u00e2nd unii tineri \u00eencep s\u0103 urm\u0103reasc\u0103 pa\u0219ii prezenta\u021bi \u00een c\u0103r\u021bi pentru a ajunge \u00een acela\u0219i loc ca \u0219i idolii lor. Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 faptul c\u0103 respectivii tineri uit\u0103 c\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103 mai apar \u0219i lucruri pe care nu le putem controla, ace\u0219tia aleg s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 via\u021ba altcuiva, nu a lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce ace\u0219ti tineri nu fac propriile lor alegeri? De ce cred c\u0103 a urma un tipar de via\u021b\u0103 (s\u0103 zicem via\u021b\u0103 de succes) este mai bine dec\u00e2t a-\u0219i construi propria via\u021b\u0103? De ce aleg aceste scurt\u0103turi (pentru c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 de fapt aceste modele sunt posibilit\u0103\u021bi de a ajunge repede acolo unde \u00ee\u0219i doresc) \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 propriul model de via\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tr\u0103im vremurile \u00een care a fi celebru \u0219i bogat este visul fiec\u0103rui t\u00e2n\u0103r (de\u0219i, dac\u0103 privim cu aten\u021bie \u00een jur, nu to\u021bi cei celebri \u0219i boga\u021bi sunt \u0219i ferici\u021bi, dar acesta poate fi subiectul unui alt articol, la un moment dat), iar a ajunge celebru \u0219i bogat \u00een scurt timp este foarte important. Poate c\u0103 aceste lucruri explic\u0103 nevoia tineretului de azi de a urma modele de via\u021b\u0103 ale oamenilor pe care \u00eei v\u0103d la tv sau \u00een mediul online \u0219i despre care \u0219tiu c\u0103 sunt boga\u021bi \u0219i c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i permit orice \u00ee\u0219i doresc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doar c\u0103, am impresia c\u0103 \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 imite pe altcineva pentru a ajunge acolo unde este acea persoan\u0103, pierd multe lucruri importante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i, pentru c\u0103, oric\u00e2t \u0219i-ar dori sau oric\u00e2t s-ar str\u0103dui, ei nu pot fi oamenii pe care \u00eei imit\u0103 (s\u0103 nu uit\u0103m c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi este unic).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd, pierd o via\u021b\u0103 (o irosesc, de fapt), \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 fie altcineva sau \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 se ridice la ni\u0219te standarde pe care doar ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i \u0219i le impun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 mai sunt \u0219i alte explica\u021bii pentru faptul c\u0103 tinerii aleg s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 via\u021ba altora, mi-a\u0219 dori, \u00eens\u0103, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i dea seama, destul de repede, c\u0103 ei sunt unici, c\u0103 via\u021ba lor merit\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 \u00een func\u021bie de ceea ce simt, ceea ce vor, ceea ce au, nu \u00een func\u021bie de ceea ce scriu unii \u00een vreo carte sau \u00een post\u0103ri pe re\u021bele de socializare.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tr\u0103im perioada de timp \u00een care avem acces la o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de informa\u021bii de tot felul (din care putem selecta ce ne intereseaz\u0103), dar \u00een care g\u0103sim \u0219i o gr\u0103mad\u0103 &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1903"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1903"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1903\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1904,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1903\/revisions\/1904"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1903"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1903"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1903"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}