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M\u0103 tot \u00eentrebam de ce toat\u0103 lumea este permanent sup\u0103rat\u0103, trist\u0103 \u0219i vede doar partea negativ\u0103 a lucrurilor. De ce c\u00e2nd spui ceva to\u021bi v\u0103d doar p\u0103r\u021bile negative, nu \u0219i pe cele pozitive sau constructive? Iar, \u00een ultimul timp am observat acest comportament \u0219i la cei tineri sau foarte tineri (adic\u0103 cei care \u00eenc\u0103 nu s-au lovit de probleme adev\u0103rate). \u0218i nu \u00een\u021belegeam de ce societatea, \u00een ansamblul ei, reac\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u00een acest mod.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi, \u00eens\u0103, c\u00e2nd am privit cu aten\u021bie la ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een mediul online \u0219i la ce \u0219tiri apar la televizor (sau sunt difuzate la radio), am g\u0103sit un r\u0103spuns la \u00eentrebarea mea, \u0219i anume: suntem influen\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 vedem permanent doar p\u0103r\u021bile negative. Dac\u0103 \u00een jurul nostru vedem doar lucruri negative (delicte, violen\u021b\u0103, \u00een\u0219el\u0103ciuni etc), cum am putea s\u0103 credem c\u0103 mai exist\u0103 \u0219i altceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u0103 uime\u0219te u\u0219urin\u021ba cu care ajungem s\u0103 credem c\u0103 ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 doar lucruri negative sau vedem \u00een jurul nostru doar astfel de situa\u021bii. Pentru c\u0103 exist\u0103 \u0219i lucruri bune, pozitive, frumoase \u00een apropierea noastr\u0103 \u0219i depinde doar de noi s\u0103 le vedem, s\u0103 le \u00een\u021belegem \u0219i s\u0103 le tr\u0103im.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u0103 miram c\u0103 am devenit cu to\u021bii tri\u0219ti, deprima\u021bi, chiar depresivi, dar, de fapt, este un efect (secundar?) al informa\u021biilor cu care suntem bombarda\u021bi zilnic. Dac\u0103 am reu\u0219i s\u0103 ne deta\u0219\u0103m de unele dintre aceste informa\u021bii, dac\u0103 am putea s\u0103 vedem \u0219i dincolo de ceea ce ni se comunic\u0103 de c\u0103tre cei care au influen\u021b\u0103 (fie \u00een mediul online, fie la tv sau radio), poate am fi \u00een stare s\u0103 vedem c\u0103 via\u021ba nu este alc\u0103tuit\u0103 numai din nenorociri \u0219i triste\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u0103d mul\u021bi oameni tri\u0219ti, sup\u0103ra\u021bi, revolta\u021bi, oameni care ar putea s\u0103 se bucure de ceea ce au \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i duc\u0103 via\u021ba frumos. Doar c\u0103 oamenii sunt \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi (educa\u021bi?) s\u0103 vrea mai mult (\u00een special \u00een domeniul financiar). Iar, \u00een momentul \u00een care nu au ceea ce vor, devin nemul\u021bumi\u021bi, se cred ne\u00eemplini\u021bi \u0219i \u00eencep s\u0103 dezvolte tot felul de complexe de inferioritate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar cred c\u0103 avem nevoie de foarte pu\u021bine lucruri ca s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de via\u021b\u0103. Dac\u0103 d\u0103m deoparte toate lucrurile pe care le achizi\u021bion\u0103m pentru propriul nostru confort sau pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a fac to\u021bi ceilal\u021bi, poate c\u0103 am reu\u0219i s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de ceea ce avem, de fiecare zi \u0219i de ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De multe ori conteaz\u0103 mai mult atitudinea pe care o avem atunci c\u00e2nd suntem pu\u0219i \u00een situa\u021bii dificile, dec\u00e2t situa\u021bia \u00een sine. Dac\u0103 suntem mai calmi, mai lini\u0219ti\u021bi, mai \u00een\u021beleg\u0103tori, parc\u0103 nici situa\u021bia nu mai pare at\u00e2t de grav\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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