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\u00cen lumea de azi, c\u00e2nd to\u021bi urm\u0103rim ceva, c\u00e2nd to\u021bi ne dorim ce au ceilal\u021bi, c\u00e2nd to\u021bi vrem s\u0103 ajungem undeva (sau cineva?), c\u00e2t de sinceri mai putem (mai avem voie) s\u0103 fim? Sau mai putem fi sinceri cu ceilal\u021bi \u0219i cu noi \u00een\u0219ine? Mai este loc pentru sinceritate \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103? Sau ne-am obi\u0219nuit at\u00e2t de mult s\u0103 spunem ce credem c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 spunem sau ce vor al\u021bii s\u0103 aud\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t nici nu mai \u0219tim ce este sinceritatea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ni se pare normal s\u0103 ne ascundem \u00een spatele aperen\u021belor sau s\u0103 ne prezent\u0103m \u00een fa\u021ba celorlal\u021bi a\u0219a cum credem c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fim (nu a\u0219a cum suntem \u00een realitate). Iar, uneori, ajungem s\u0103 credem chiar \u0219i noi c\u0103 suntem persoanele pe care le-am construit. Doar c\u0103, \u00een via\u021b\u0103 vor exista momente sau situa\u021bii \u00een care adev\u0103ratul nostru caracter va ie\u0219i la iveal\u0103. Momente sau situa\u021bii \u00een care nu mai putem disimula sau \u00een care nu vom mai avea unde s\u0103 ne ascundem de noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i de cine suntem. \u0218i atunci vom fi obliga\u021bi s\u0103 ne confrunt\u0103m cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, s\u0103 afl\u0103m cine suntem \u0219i ce vrem de la via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i de la lume.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 societatea de azi are nevoie de sinceritate sau vrea (\u00eei place) s\u0103 fie min\u021bit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 am devenit cu to\u021bii foarte superficiali \u0219i ne l\u0103s\u0103m vr\u0103ji\u021bi de aparen\u021be, de imagine, de ceea ce vedem, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 afl\u0103m ce se ascunde \u00een spatele aparen\u021belor, imaginii \u0219i lucrurilor vizibile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar chiar ne dorim s\u0103 fim min\u021bi\u021bi \u0219i manipula\u021bi? Pentru c\u0103, trebuie s\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103, rela\u021bia dintre minciun\u0103 \u0219i manipulare este apropiat\u0103 \u0219i direct propor\u021bional\u0103. Un om min\u021bit este u\u0219or de manipulat, pentru c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd crede tot ce \u00eei spunem, este u\u0219or s\u0103 \u00eel convingem s\u0103 fac\u0103 ce ne dorim noi, nu ce vrea el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 oamenii sinceri de azi sunt pu\u021bini. Da, sunt oameni care pretind c\u0103 sunt sinceri sau sunt sinceri c\u00e2t au un interes (c\u00e2t le convine), dar oamenii care \u00ee\u0219i spun sincer p\u0103rerea sunt pu\u021bini. Poate pentru c\u0103, uneori, sinceritatea r\u0103ne\u0219te? Poate pentru c\u0103 nu vrem (ne este ru\u0219ine?) s\u0103 le spunem celor dragi adev\u0103rata noastr\u0103 p\u0103rere despre un subiect sau despre o situa\u021bie? Sau poate pentru c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim sau am uitat s\u0103 fim sinceri (a trecut at\u00e2t de mult timp de c\u00e2nd am fost sinceri \u0219i nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 facem acest lucru)?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N-ar fi r\u0103u s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, c\u00e2teva exerci\u021bii de sinceritate, adic\u0103 s\u0103 spunem exact ce credem despre ceva, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu uit\u0103m s\u0103 fim sinceri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i s-ar putea s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim mai bine \u00een propria noastr\u0103 piele dac\u0103 reu\u0219im s\u0103 fim sinceri (cel pu\u021bin din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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