{"id":1854,"date":"2023-08-28T17:13:39","date_gmt":"2023-08-28T14:13:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1854"},"modified":"2023-08-28T17:13:41","modified_gmt":"2023-08-28T14:13:41","slug":"mediul-in-care-traim-sau-in-care-muncim-ne-poate-transforma-in-persoane-superficiale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1854","title":{"rendered":"Mediul (\u00een care tr\u0103im sau \u00een care muncim) ne poate transforma \u00een persoane superficiale?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 m-am tot g\u00e2ndit, \u00een ultimul timp, la persoane superficiale \u0219i la c\u00e2t de superficiali suntem cu to\u021bii \u00een anumite privin\u021be, am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103, dincolo de influen\u021ba mass-media sau de influen\u021ba internetului, mai sunt \u0219i alte lucruri (sau situa\u021bii) care ne \u201cajut\u0103\u201d s\u0103 devenim superficiali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen Dic\u021bionarul Explicativ al Limbii Rom\u00e2ne am g\u0103sit defini\u021bia cuv\u00e2ntului superficial:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>care apare, se produce, r\u0103m\u00e2ne la suprafa\u021b\u0103 unui obiect, unei fiin\u021be; care apare, se produce, r\u0103m\u00e2ne la suprafa\u021b\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ating\u0103 miezul, esen\u021ba lucrurilor.<\/li><li>care trateaz\u0103 problemele f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le ad\u00e2nceasc\u0103, care trece u\u0219or peste lucruri, lipsit de ad\u00e2ncime.<\/li><li>f\u0103r\u0103 a aprofunda, pe deasupra.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u0103 uime\u0219te superficialitatea lumii de azi, a oamenilor care sunt mai aten\u021bi \u0219i mai receptivi la imagine dec\u00e2t la ce este \u00een spatele acesteia, la copert\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 mai citeasc\u0103 \u0219i con\u021binutul, la aparen\u021be, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fie \u00een stare s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce este dincolo de acestea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-a\u0219 dori ca oamenii s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103 pu\u021bin din tot ceea ce fac, s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 analizeze ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, de ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 hot\u0103rasc\u0103 singuri ce vor s\u0103 fac\u0103 (ce pot s\u0103 fac\u0103?) de acum \u00eenainte cu via\u021ba lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Probleme apar atunci c\u00e2nd mediul \u00een care tr\u0103iesc (sau cel \u00een care muncesc) \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 lucrurile (activit\u0103\u021bile) superficiale \u0219i c\u00e2nd, pentru a dovedi c\u0103 fac parte din respectivul grup, oamenii se simt datori s\u0103 fie pe aceea\u0219i lungime de und\u0103 cu cei care conduc sau care coordoneaz\u0103 respectivele grupuri, indiferent dac\u0103 ei chiar \u00ee\u0219i doresc sau nu s\u0103 fie at\u00e2t de superficiali pe c\u00e2t li se cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dorin\u021ba de confirmare sau de validare (am scris \u00een noiembrie 2021 despre nevoia de confirmare sau de validare <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/11\/03\/despre-nevoia-de-validare-sau-confirmare\/\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/11\/03\/despre-nevoia-de-validare-sau-confirmare\/<\/a>) ne oblig\u0103, uneori, s\u0103 facem lucruri care nu ne reprezint\u0103, dar pe care, v\u0103z\u00e2ndu-le destul de des \u00een jurul nostru, le accept\u0103m \u0219i le consider\u0103m normale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca s\u0103 r\u0103spund \u00eentreb\u0103rii din titlul articolului da, cred c\u0103 mediul \u00een care tr\u0103im, dar \u0219i cel \u00een care muncim ne influen\u021beaz\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t credem noi \u0219i da, ambele ne pot transforma \u00een ni\u0219te persoane superficiale. Dac\u0103 accept\u0103m tot ce ni se cere sau tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 trecem prin propriul filtru ceea ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 sau evenimentele din jurul nostru. Dac\u0103 accept\u0103m s\u0103 d\u0103m altora controlul asupra vie\u021bii noastre doar pentru c\u0103 ne dorim o confirmare. Dac\u0103 accept\u0103m s\u0103 fim mai pu\u021bin dec\u00e2t ceea ce suntem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu am nimic cu superficialitatea, este normal s\u0103 avem domenii pe care nu le aprofund\u0103m \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103, dar, atunci c\u00e2nd este vorba de noi, de via\u021ba noastr\u0103, de cine suntem, de cine vrem s\u0103 fim, de cum s\u0103 ajungem ce vrem s\u0103 fim, cred c\u0103 este important ca mai \u00eent\u00e2i s\u0103 fim siguri c\u0103 noi lu\u0103m deciziile importante.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pentru c\u0103 m-am tot g\u00e2ndit, \u00een ultimul timp, la persoane superficiale \u0219i la c\u00e2t de superficiali suntem cu to\u021bii \u00een anumite privin\u021be, am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103, dincolo de &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1854"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1854"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1854\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1855,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1854\/revisions\/1855"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1854"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1854"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1854"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}