{"id":1852,"date":"2023-08-27T19:23:48","date_gmt":"2023-08-27T16:23:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1852"},"modified":"2023-08-27T19:23:49","modified_gmt":"2023-08-27T16:23:49","slug":"despre-intalnirea-revederea-cu-fosti-colegi-varianta-2023","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1852","title":{"rendered":"Despre \u00eent\u00e2lnirea (revederea) cu fo\u0219ti colegi \u2013 varianta 2023"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zilele acestea m-am v\u0103zut, \u00eentr-un context relaxat \u0219i nu \u00een localitatea \u00een care locuiesc, cu o fost\u0103 coleg\u0103. Dup\u0103 ce a p\u0103r\u0103sit locul de munc\u0103 unde eram colege, \u0219i-a schimbat domeniul de activitate cu totul \u0219i, de c\u00e2nd a plecat (sunt c\u00e2\u021biva ani deja), nu m-am mai \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu ea deloc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a c\u0103 a fost surprinz\u0103tor s\u0103 o g\u0103sesc \u00eentr-un loc unde am fost \u00eentr-unul din ultimele week-end-uri \u0219i s\u0103 avem o conversa\u021bie scurt\u0103, de c\u00e2teva minute, timp \u00een care am aflat o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de lucruri despre ea \u0219i despre cum se simte \u00een noua postur\u0103, dup\u0103 at\u00e2\u021bia ani de c\u00e2nd nu ne-am v\u0103zut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-am bucurat s\u0103 o g\u0103sesc relaxat\u0103, pentru c\u0103, \u00een ultima perioad\u0103 \u00eenainte s\u0103 plece era destul de agitat\u0103 \u0219i de afectat\u0103 de stres, de griji privind ce l\u0103sa \u00een urm\u0103, dar \u0219i ce o a\u0219tepta \u00een viitor. Probabil c\u0103 \u0219i decizia de a pleca a afectat-o destul de mult, dar \u0219i demararea de noi proiecte \u00een via\u021ba ei a generat g\u00e2nduri de tot felul \u0219i oboseal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 mi-a pl\u0103cut c\u0103 am g\u0103sit o altfel de persoan\u0103 dec\u00e2t o \u0219tiam eu: mai sigur\u0103 pe ea, mai con\u0219tient\u0103 de propria valoare, mai experimentat\u0103 \u0219i mai hot\u0103r\u00e2t\u0103 s\u0103 se bucure de via\u021b\u0103 dec\u00e2t p\u00e2n\u0103 acum (acest acum fiind, de fapt, momentul din urm\u0103 cu c\u00e2\u021biva ani).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Inclusiv lucrurile pe care a apucat s\u0103 mi le spun\u0103 \u00een cele c\u00e2teva minute de conversa\u021bie ar\u0103tau un om care a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 un echilibru \u00eentre via\u021ba personal\u0103 \u0219i cea profesional\u0103, un om care de\u0219i a recunoscut c\u0103 a trecut destul de greu peste plecarea de la locul de munc\u0103 unde eram colege, a reu\u0219it s\u0103 fie pe propriile picioare \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i construiasc\u0103 un viitor care i-a asigurat tot ce avea nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dincolo de surpriza c\u0103 ne-am g\u0103sit \u00eentr-un loc \u00een care nu m\u0103 a\u0219teptam (\u0219i sigur nici ea nu se g\u00e2ndea c\u0103 ne-am putea vedea), cred c\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnirea cu ea mi-a amintit de momente frumoase din via\u021ba mea, de oameni frumo\u0219i (care \u00een momentul prezent, din diferite motive, nu mai fac parte din via\u021ba mea profesional\u0103), de situa\u021bii care ne-au provocat pe am\u00e2ndou\u0103 \u0219i de lucruri care ne-au adus bucurii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Altfel nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 \u00eemi explic z\u00e2mbetul meu prezent pe fa\u021ba mea toat\u0103 ziua de dup\u0103 momentul \u00een care m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aceast\u0103 revedere mi-a dat o stare de bine, mi-a \u00eenfrumuse\u021bat toat\u0103 ziua, mi-a amintit c\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba mea au existat oameni de calitate \u0219i care, de\u0219i au ales s\u0103 plece (pe plan profesional), au l\u0103sat \u00een urma lor regrete (pentru c\u0103 nu mai sunt), speran\u021be (c\u0103 vor reu\u0219i \u00een noua lor via\u021b\u0103) \u0219i respect (pentru ceea ce au f\u0103cut \u0219i ceea ce au l\u0103sat \u00een urma lor).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Zilele acestea m-am v\u0103zut, \u00eentr-un context relaxat \u0219i nu \u00een localitatea \u00een care locuiesc, cu o fost\u0103 coleg\u0103. Dup\u0103 ce a p\u0103r\u0103sit locul de munc\u0103 unde eram colege, \u0219i-a schimbat &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1852"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1852"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1852\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1853,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1852\/revisions\/1853"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1852"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1852"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1852"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}