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De\u0219i am scris \u00een iunie 2021 despre minciuna de zi cu zi (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/06\/18\/minciuna-de-zi-cu-zi\/<\/a>) \u0219i \u00een august 2021 despre unde ne oprim cu minciuna (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/08\/02\/unde-ne-oprim-cu-minciuna\/<\/a>), cred c\u0103 mai sunt multe de spus (\u0219i de scris) despre minciuni \u0219i adev\u0103r, despre secrete \u0219i momente \u00een care ne sim\u021bim obliga\u021bi (de al\u021bii, de situa\u021bii) s\u0103 nu spunem adev\u0103rul\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n Azi \u00eemi aminteam c\u0103 am citit undeva (sau am v\u0103zut \u00eentr-un film, poate?) c\u0103 minciunile acestea mici (a\u0219a zis nevinovate), cele pe care le folosim des, ne \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 disimul\u0103m, s\u0103 ascundem adev\u0103rul \u0219i ne arat\u0103 adev\u0103ratul caracter. Este normal s\u0103 ne \u00eentreb\u0103m dac\u0103 nu cumva o persoan\u0103 care ne minte \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu mai multe lucruri mici, nu cumva ne ascunde adev\u0103rul \u0219i \u00een situa\u021bii importante din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 (respectiva persoan\u0103 ridic\u0103 semne de \u00eentrebare cu privire la credibilitatea persoanelor respective).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Poate c\u0103 prin\u0219i \u00een v\u00e2rtejul minciunilor mici, pe care nu le consider\u0103m nocive, ajungem s\u0103 le accept\u0103m \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103, s\u0103 le facem loc \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i astfel s\u0103 le (pre)d\u0103m controlul asupra existen\u021bei noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Este foarte u\u0219or s\u0103 facem, din obi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103, anumite lucruri, \u00een acest caz s\u0103 ascundem adev\u0103rul sau s\u0103 nu spunem tot adev\u0103rul sau s\u0103 spunem ce credem noi c\u0103 este adev\u0103rul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oamenii de azi nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 mai fie sinceri, pentru c\u0103 ei au o strategie de via\u021b\u0103, au lucruri pe care trebuie s\u0103 le fac\u0103, obiective pe care vor s\u0103 le ating\u0103 \u0219i, pentru a ajunge acolo unde \u00ee\u0219i doresc, sunt dispu\u0219i (de cele mai multe ori) s\u0103 nu spun\u0103 adev\u0103rul sau s\u0103 spun\u0103 jum\u0103t\u0103\u021bi de adev\u0103r (sau fr\u00e2nturi de adev\u0103r?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Am momente c\u00e2nd mi-e dor de oameni sinceri, de oameni care s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i sus\u021bin\u0103 cu argumente un punct de vedere, dar care s\u0103 fie sinceri \u00een ceea ce sus\u021bin \u0219i \u00een ceea ce fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oamenii de azi au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 se ascund\u0103 (oare dezvoltarea tehnologiei \u0219i apari\u021bia re\u021belelor de socializare are vreun rol \u00een acest fenomen?!), s\u0103 nu spun\u0103 ce g\u00e2ndesc, s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 multe cuvinte \u0219i expresii care nu spun nimic (prefer\u00e2nd s\u0103 se ascund\u0103 \u00een spatele acestora) dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fie ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Problema este c\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre ei nici m\u0103car nu \u00ee\u0219i dau seama c\u00e2t de repede au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 disimuleze \u0219i s\u0103 nu spun\u0103 ce g\u00e2ndesc \u0219i ajung s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 toat\u0103 via\u021ba \u00eentr-o minciun\u0103 pe care au construit-o singuri, dar care, nu \u00eei mai reprezint\u0103, la un moment dat. Totu\u0219i, ei continu\u0103 s\u0103 o sus\u021bin\u0103. Oare pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 altfel (dec\u00e2t \u00een minciun\u0103) sau pentru c\u0103 nu (mai) \u0219tiu s\u0103 spun\u0103 adev\u0103rul?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" De\u0219i am scris \u00een iunie 2021 despre minciuna de zi cu zi (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/06\/18\/minciuna-de-zi-cu-zi\/) \u0219i \u00een august 2021 despre unde ne oprim cu minciuna (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/08\/02\/unde-ne-oprim-cu-minciuna\/), cred c\u0103 mai sunt multe de …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1840"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1840"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1840\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1841,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1840\/revisions\/1841"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1840"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1840"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1840"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}