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Pentru c\u0103 via\u021ba este simpl\u0103 (am scris despre via\u021ba simpl\u0103 \u0219i fericire \u00een luna martie 2023 – https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2022\/03\/29\/despre-viata-simpla-si-fericire\/<\/a>), dar noi o complic\u0103m (am scris despre de ce ne complic\u0103m singuri via\u021ba \u00een luna mai 2023 –https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2023\/05\/14\/de-ce-ne-complicam-singuri-viata\/<\/a>), oare \u0219tim s\u0103 ne \u00eenfrunt\u0103m temerile?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218tim s\u0103 lupt\u0103m cu lucrurile de care ne temem? Sau \u0219tim cum s\u0103 facem fa\u021b\u0103 lucrurilor care ne provoac\u0103 team\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cred c\u0103, de fapt, ne obi\u0219nuim s\u0103 st\u0103m departe de lucrurile de care ne temem \u0219i alegem s\u0103 le ocolim (pe c\u00e2t putem), \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 nu avem o confruntare cu acestea sau cu ceea ce sim\u021bim \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu ele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n De multe ori, c\u00e2nd alegem s\u0103 \u00eenfrunt\u0103m lucrurile care ne sperie, afl\u0103m (cu uimire) c\u0103 temerile noastre erau gre\u0219ite sau c\u0103 nu aveam de ce s\u0103 ne temem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Alteori, av\u00e2nd o confruntare cu ceea ce ne sperie, afl\u0103m lucruri inedite despre noi \u0219i \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m c\u0103 exist\u0103 aspecte pozitive \u00een orice experien\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Iar, alteori, afl\u0103m c\u0103 aveam motive s\u0103 ne temem de anumite lucruri, dar \u00eenfruntarea temerilor noastre ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 afl\u0103m cine ne sunt prieteni \u0219i cine nu, cine este al\u0103turi de noi \u0219i cine ne abandoneaz\u0103 la primul hop sau g\u0103sim \u00een noi putere pentru a face fa\u021b\u0103 consecin\u021belor situa\u021biilor respective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu cred c\u0103 noi, \u00een esen\u021b\u0103, ca oameni, suntem la\u0219i \u0219i c\u0103 din acest motiv evit\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eenfrunt\u0103m lucrurile (situa\u021biile sau persoanele) care ne sperie. Cred c\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne convingem singuri c\u0103 nu este nevoie s\u0103 ajungem fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 cu lucrul (situa\u021bia sau persoana) care ne \u00eensp\u0103im\u00e2nt\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103ut\u0103m explica\u021bii \u0219i scuze ca s\u0103 nu \u00eei facem fa\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ca s\u0103 r\u0103spund \u00eentreb\u0103rii din titlul articolului: nu, nu cred c\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 ne \u00eenfrunt\u0103m temerile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Cred c\u0103 ne \u00eenfrunt\u0103m temerile atunci c\u00e2nd nu exist\u0103 alt\u0103 solu\u021bie, c\u00e2nd suntem presa\u021bi de \u00eemprejur\u0103ri sau de alte circumstan\u021be sau c\u00e2nd suntem obliga\u021bi (\u00eentr-un fel sau altul) s\u0103 facem fa\u021b\u0103 situa\u021biilor respective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ni se pare mai simplu s\u0103 evit\u0103m s\u0103 ajungem \u00een astfel de situa\u021bii \u0219i ni se pare comod s\u0103 st\u0103m departe de ele. \u0218i, astfel, adun\u0103m \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 tot felul de lucruri negative, de oameni pe care \u00eei evit\u0103m \u0219i de situa\u021bii pe care le ocolim, doar pentru c\u0103 nu g\u0103sim suficient curaj (\u00eendr\u0103zneal\u0103, dac\u0103 vre\u021bi) pentru a le \u00eenfrunta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Problema este c\u0103 acest comportament al nostru ajunge s\u0103 fie imitat de cei mici care se afl\u0103 \u00een jurul nostru \u0219i, \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00eei \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 fie deschi\u0219i \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 asimileze c\u00e2t mai multe experien\u021be pozitive, \u00eei \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 fie defensivi, s\u0103 nu r\u0103spund\u0103 provoc\u0103rilor vie\u021bii \u0219i, astfel, s\u0103 piard\u0103 momente frumoase (\u0219i oameni frumo\u0219i) care ar fi putut face parte din via\u021ba lor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Pentru c\u0103 via\u021ba este simpl\u0103 (am scris despre via\u021ba simpl\u0103 \u0219i fericire \u00een luna martie 2023 – https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2022\/03\/29\/despre-viata-simpla-si-fericire\/), dar noi o complic\u0103m (am scris despre de ce ne complic\u0103m singuri …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1816"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1816"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1816\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1817,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1816\/revisions\/1817"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}