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A\u021bi observat c\u00e2t de u\u0219or este s\u0103 distrugem orice (mai ales ce nu am construit) \u0219i c\u00e2t de greu se construie\u0219te ceva (cl\u0103diri, rela\u021bii etc)?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centotdeauna m-am \u00eentrebat de ce lucrurile se construiesc at\u00e2t de greu (investim efort, timp, r\u0103bdare, bani, energie) \u0219i apoi se distrug at\u00e2t de u\u0219or (cu un cuv\u00e2nt, cu un gest, cu o unealt\u0103 etc). De ce suntem dispu\u0219i s\u0103 distrugem u\u0219or lucruri (sau rela\u021bii) pe care le-am construit greu (\u0219i foarte greu)?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dic\u021bionarul Explicativ al Limbii Rom\u00e2ne define\u0219te a construi drept a forma un \u00eentreg (o cl\u0103dire, o ma\u0219in\u0103 etc), leg\u00e2nd \u00een mod trainic \u0219i \u00een ordinea cerut\u0103 p\u0103r\u021bile lui componente dup\u0103 un plan prestabilit; a realiza o construc\u021bie de propor\u021bii vaste, care necesit\u0103 lucr\u0103ri numeroase, variate \u0219i complexe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acela\u0219i DEX define\u0219te termenul de a distruge ca a face s\u0103 nu mai existe (stric\u00e2nd, sp\u0103rg\u00e2nd, d\u0103r\u00e2m\u00e2nd etc), a nimici, a ruina; a face s\u0103-\u0219i piard\u0103 \u00eentreaga avere, \u00eentreaga s\u0103n\u0103tate, \u00eentreaga lini\u0219te sufleteasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dac\u0103 depunem at\u00e2t de multe eforturi s\u0103 construim ceva, de ce distrugem at\u00e2t de u\u0219or acel lucru (sau acea rela\u021bie)? Sau de ce l\u0103s\u0103m pe al\u021bii s\u0103 distrug\u0103 foarte u\u0219or ceea ce am cl\u0103dit at\u00e2t de greu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oare este \u00een natura noastr\u0103 s\u0103 distrugem lucruri? Oare suntem predispu\u0219i la a distruge orice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd suntem sup\u0103ra\u021bi, furio\u0219i, frustra\u021bi, c\u00e2nd suferim din cauza persoanelor sau lucrurilor din via\u021ba noastr\u0103, avem tendin\u021ba s\u0103 \u00eei facem \u0219i pe ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 se simt\u0103 ca \u0219i noi (s\u0103 nu fim singurii care avem parte de durere) \u0219i atunci spunem lucruri grele, ne comport\u0103m ur\u00e2t, vrem s\u0103 \u00eei r\u0103nim pe to\u021bi (am face s\u0103 sufere \u00eentregul mapamond, dac\u0103 am putea). Poate c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd suferim, ar fi de \u00een\u021bele de ce vrem s\u0103 distrugem lucruri (dar \u0219i \u00een aceste situa\u021bii sunte multe aspecte de l\u0103murit).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar de ce am vrea s\u0103 distrugem lucruri atunci c\u00e2nd nu avem motive s\u0103 facem a\u0219a ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce oamenii distrug, cu bun\u0103 \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103, lucruri (sau rela\u021bii) ale celor din jur sau chiar ale lor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce \u00ee\u0219i saboteaz\u0103, de multe ori, singuri, fericirea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce fac lucruri sau ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t distrug ceva ce au construit foarte greu? Mai ales c\u0103 \u0219tiu (de c\u00e2nd \u00eencep s\u0103 fac\u0103 acele lucruri) c\u0103 vor regreta ac\u021biunile \u0219i activit\u0103\u021bile lor sau efectele acestora?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce cocheteaz\u0103 oamenii cu ideea c\u0103 nu vor \u00eenfrunta rezultatele ac\u021biunilor lor distrug\u0103toare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sau oamenii nu pot (sau nu \u0219tiu) s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 sufere, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 simt\u0103 durere \u0219i atunci \u00ee\u0219i submineaz\u0103 propriile eforturi depuse pentru construirea unui lucru (sau unei rela\u021bii,) pentru c\u0103 au nevoie(?!) s\u0103 fie neferici\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate ar trebui s\u0103 fim mai aten\u021bi cu lucrurile (sau rela\u021biile) pe care le construim \u0219i la lucrurile (sau rela\u021biile) \u00een care intervenim \u0219i pe care le (putem?) distruge.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A\u021bi observat c\u00e2t de u\u0219or este s\u0103 distrugem orice (mai ales ce nu am construit) \u0219i c\u00e2t de greu se construie\u0219te ceva (cl\u0103diri, rela\u021bii etc)? \u00centotdeauna m-am \u00eentrebat de ce …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1807"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1807"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1807\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1809,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1807\/revisions\/1809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}