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Citeam azi online titlul unei \u0219tiri \u0219i am v\u0103zut c\u00e2t de r\u0103ut\u0103cios era autorul articolului \u0219i c\u00e2t de bun era la a fi astfel. Am tot v\u0103zut, \u0219i la tv \u0219i \u00een mediul online, titluri de \u0219tiri \u0219i chiar \u0219tiri \u00eentregi \u00een cadrul c\u0103rora unii oameni (sau unele categorii de oameni) erau tratate foarte ur\u00e2t, nu doar ironizate, ci chiar umilite. Dac\u0103, la \u00eenceput aveam tendin\u021ba de a fi de accord cu cei care f\u0103ceau articolul (le \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219eam punctual de vedere pentru c\u0103 nu aveam \u0219i alte unghiuri prin care s\u0103 privesc respective situa\u021bie), \u00eencet \u2013 \u00eencet am ajuns la concluzia c\u0103 oamenii care fac \u0219tirile caut\u0103 s\u0103 fie r\u0103ut\u0103cio\u0219i sau ironici pentru c\u0103 astfel au audien\u021b\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 mai mul\u021bi bani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Problema este c\u0103 ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 fim r\u0103i unii cu ceial\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 astfel de exemple g\u0103sim, permanent, \u00een mass-media, dar uit\u0103m s\u0103 fim buni, uit\u0103m s\u0103 ar\u0103t\u0103m celorlal\u021bi \u00een\u021belegere, generozitate, bun\u0103tate. Uit\u0103m s\u0103 oferim un um\u0103r celor care au nevoie de sprijin \u0219i uit\u0103m (sau nu vrem s\u0103 credem) c\u0103 \u0219i noi, la un moment dat, am putea ajunge subiectul unei astfel de \u0219tiri \u0219i c\u0103 ne-am dori clemen\u021b\u0103, ne-am dori s\u0103 avem parte de un drept la replic\u0103 ce s\u0103 nu fie interpretat a\u0219a cum vrea produc\u0103torul emisiunii de \u0219tiri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-a\u0219 dori ca societatea de azi s\u0103 premieze \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103 \u0219i oamenii ironici, acizi, care \u0219tiu s\u0103 prezinte un subiect din punct de vedere real, dar \u0219i oamenii care vin cu solu\u021bii (sau cu propuneri de solu\u021bii) la situa\u021bii care par f\u0103r\u0103 ie\u0219ire sau oameni care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i r\u0103scumpere (\u00eentr-un fel sau altul) gre\u0219elile pe care le-au f\u0103cut sau oameni care au ceva de spus din care oricine poate \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne l\u0103s\u0103m purta\u021bi de lucrurile negative pe care le g\u0103sim permanent online sau la tv \u0219i \u00eencepem s\u0103 fim \u0219i noi frustra\u021bi, nervo\u0219i, stresa\u021bi (adic\u0103 influen\u021ba\u021bi de emo\u021bii negative) \u0219i uit\u0103m s\u0103 fim pozitivi. Uit\u0103m s\u0103 d\u0103m o \u0219ans\u0103 celor din jur (\u0219i nou\u0103) la lucruri pozitive, la emo\u021bii pozitive, la o via\u021b\u0103 pl\u0103cut\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 ne pricepem s\u0103 fim r\u0103i, dar suntem permanent \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 fim r\u0103i cu ceilal\u021bi, s\u0103 ne situ\u0103m cumva deasupra lor \u0219i ni se par normale astfel de situa\u021bii (ne-am obi\u0219nuit cu ele?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu cred c\u0103 a fi r\u0103u cu cineva sau a umili pe cineva ar trebui s\u0103 fac\u0103 parte din via\u021ba noastr\u0103. Trebuie, \u00eens\u0103, s\u0103 realiz\u0103m \u0219i noi c\u0103 suntem r\u0103i sau c\u0103 suntem recompensa\u021bi cumva de societate (de \u0219efi, de cei apropia\u021bi etc) pentru c\u0103 ne-am comportat ur\u00e2t cu cineva. Sau pentru c\u0103 am p\u0103c\u0103lit pe cineva. Sau pentru c\u0103 am \u00eentristat pe cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate dac\u0103 societatea ar premia \u0219i momentele \u00een care suntem buni cu ceilal\u021bi, suntem \u00een\u021beleg\u0103tori, suntem empatici, suntem amabili, poate am vedea mai multe astfel de exemple \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi. \u0218i n-am mai fi at\u00e2t de nervo\u0219i, frustra\u021bi, stresa\u021bi sau tri\u0219ti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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