{"id":1746,"date":"2023-06-20T19:24:56","date_gmt":"2023-06-20T16:24:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1746"},"modified":"2023-07-13T19:38:43","modified_gmt":"2023-07-13T16:38:43","slug":"despre-oameni-care-se-straduiesc-prea-mult","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1746","title":{"rendered":"Despre oameni care se str\u0103duiesc prea mult"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am inten\u021bionat s\u0103 scriu acest articol \u00een referire la actorii care se str\u0103duiesc prea mult, care nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 transmit\u0103 prea multe emo\u021bii, care \u00eencearc\u0103 prea mult s\u0103 fie personajul pe care \u00eel joac\u0103 \u0219i devin fal\u0219i. Sau percep\u021bia mea asupra lor este c\u0103 emo\u021bia pe care ei o joac\u0103 este fals\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am tot v\u0103zut, \u00een ultimul timp, tot felul de filme \u0219i seriale \u00een care actorii principali nu reu\u0219eau s\u0103 intre \u00een rol. Nu reu\u0219eau s\u0103 fe personajul pe care \u00eel interpretau, de\u0219i se vedeau eforturile lor. Ace\u0219ti actori sunt frumo\u0219i, sunt fermec\u0103tori, sunt transforma\u021bi, prin machiaj \u0219i tunsoare, \u00een respectivul personaj, doar c\u0103, \u00een afar\u0103 de aspectul pl\u0103cut, nu mai exist\u0103 nimic. Adic\u0103 nu reu\u0219eau s\u0103 intre \u00een pielea personajului (\u0219i aici m\u0103 refer at\u00e2t la actori, c\u00e2t \u0219i la actri\u021be. Observa\u021biile sunt valabile \u0219i pentru ambele categorii).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi \u00eens\u0103, am descoperit \u0219i \u00een via\u021ba real\u0103 oameni care se str\u0103duiesc prea mult. Care vor s\u0103 par\u0103 ceva ce nu sunt. \u0218i nu este vorba doar de aparen\u021be sau de imagine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt oameni care tr\u0103iesc o via\u021b\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 str\u0103duindu-se s\u0103 fie acele persoane care vor (viseaz\u0103) s\u0103 fie sau acele persoane despre care cred cei din jur c\u0103 sunt. Dar ei nu sunt acele persoane. Poate reu\u0219esc s\u0103 \u00eei mint\u0103 pe cei din jur, iar, uneori, chiar pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i. Dar nu pentru mult timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce oare oamenii nu accept\u0103 c\u0103 au anumite limite \u0219i c\u0103 anumite lucruri \u00eei dep\u0103\u0219esc? Oare nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 pot fi ferici\u021bi \u0219i \u00eemplini\u021bi doar fiind ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i? Ce sens are s\u0103 fac\u0103 eforturi pentru a fi persoana \u00een care nu se reg\u0103sesc \u0219i care nu \u00eei reprezint\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 aceste eforturi f\u0103r\u0103 rezultate (pentru c\u0103, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, oamenii din jur vor vedea adev\u0103rul, indiferent c\u00e2t de fermec\u0103tori se cred cei care se str\u0103duiesc prea mult) le vor consuma prea multe resurse?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 via\u021ba nu trebuie s\u0103 fie grea (nu trebuie s\u0103 o transform\u0103m noi \u00een ceva dificil), ci trebuie doar tr\u0103it\u0103 sim\u021bindu-ne bine \u00een propria noastr\u0103 piele?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Via\u021ba este mai simpl\u0103, mai frumoas\u0103 \u0219i adev\u0103rat\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd suntem noi \u00een\u0219ine, cu bune \u0219i cu rele \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103, oric\u00e2t am \u00eencerca, nu suntem perfec\u021bi, gre\u0219im, dar important este s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m din gre\u0219elile noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd ne str\u0103duim s\u0103 fim altcineva sau s\u0103 tr\u0103im via\u021ba altcuiva, via\u021ba noastr\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne netr\u0103it\u0103. \u0218i, la un moment dat (de obicei la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be, c\u00e2nd se spune c\u0103 devenim mai \u00een\u021belep\u021bi) ajungem s\u0103 regret\u0103m c\u0103 nu am tr\u0103it a\u0219a cum ar fi trebuit \u0219i c\u0103 eforturile noastre de a fi acea persoan\u0103 care nu suntem au fost degeaba.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am inten\u021bionat s\u0103 scriu acest articol \u00een referire la actorii care se str\u0103duiesc prea mult, care nu reu\u0219esc s\u0103 transmit\u0103 prea multe emo\u021bii, care \u00eencearc\u0103 prea mult s\u0103 fie personajul &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1746"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1746"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1746\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1747,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1746\/revisions\/1747"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1746"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1746"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1746"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}