{"id":1735,"date":"2023-06-15T17:10:13","date_gmt":"2023-06-15T14:10:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1735"},"modified":"2023-06-18T10:23:48","modified_gmt":"2023-06-18T07:23:48","slug":"despre-spatiul-personal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1735","title":{"rendered":"Despre respectarea spa\u021biului personal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-a deranjat, zilele acestea, faptul c\u0103 oamenii nu mai respect\u0103 spa\u021biul personal. Credeam c\u0103 ignorarea acestei reguli este posibil\u0103 doar \u00een cazul copiilor (care \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u0219tiu cum stau lucrurile) \u0219i b\u0103tr\u00e2nilor (care au dat \u00een mintea copiilor \u0219i nu mai vor s\u0103 respecte nicio regul\u0103), dar, am v\u0103zut c\u0103 oamenii din toate categoriile de v\u00e2rst\u0103 chiar nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 p\u0103streze distan\u021ba fa\u021b\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cemi amintesc c\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat la \u0219coal\u0103 (este adev\u0103rat, \u00een orele de dirigen\u021bie, dar le-am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat) regulile de polite\u021be \u0219i ce prevede codul bunelor maniere (\u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 organizam concursuri \u00eentre colegii de clas\u0103 pe astfel de teme). Oare ceilal\u021bi nu au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat cum s\u0103 se comporte \u00een societate? Sau dac\u0103 nu au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat astfel de lucruri (din diferite motive), nu cunosc nici m\u0103car regula spa\u021biului personal? Este ceva normal \u0219i despre care pot citi foarte u\u0219or, chiar \u0219i \u00een mediul online, dac\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 caute informa\u021biid espre spa\u021biul personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este nepl\u0103cut c\u00e2nd o persoan\u0103 pe care nu o cuno\u0219ti intr\u0103 \u00een (\u00ee\u021bi \u00eenvadeaz\u0103 &#8211; \u0219i nu, nu este termenul gre\u0219it, ci este cuv\u00e2ntul care exprim\u0103 cel mai bine cum m\u0103 simt \u00een acele momente) spa\u021biul personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce nu \u00een\u021beleg oamenii c\u0103 nu este pl\u0103cut s\u0103 te apropii at\u00e2t de mult de ei dac\u0103 nu te cunosc? Din c\u00e2te \u0219tiu, \u00een regnul animal, o apropiere de cineva necunoscut poate fi interpretat\u0103 ca o amenin\u021bare sau un poten\u021bial atac. Oare oamenii \u0219i-au pierdut instinctele primare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt una din acele persoane care au nevoie de spa\u021biul lor, au nevoie s\u0103 nu simt\u0103 pe cineva necunoscut care le respir\u0103 \u00een ureche \u0219i au nevoie s\u0103 se mi\u0219te \u00een voie, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le fie team\u0103 c\u0103 vor lovi pe cineva dac\u0103 fac mi\u0219c\u0103ri bru\u0219te. \u0218i au nevoie de loc \u00een jurul lor ca s\u0103 respire lini\u0219ti\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 poat\u0103 s\u0103 se bucure de via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 nu to\u021bi suntem la fel, c\u0103 nu to\u021bi ne dorim s\u0103 avem spa\u021biu personal, dar de ce nu suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 acept\u0103m c\u0103 unii \u00ee\u0219i doresc distan\u021b\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de necunoscu\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 respect\u0103m dorin\u021ba lor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi se pare important ca, dac\u0103 dorim s\u0103 fim respecta\u021bi, dac\u0103 suntem persoane libere \u0219i putem face ce vrem, mi se pare important deci s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 p\u0103str\u0103m distan\u021ba fa\u021b\u0103 de oamenii pe care nu \u00eei cunoa\u0219tem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am scris despre cei care nu p\u0103streaz\u0103 distan\u021ba \u00een magazine (<a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/07\/30\/despre-cei-care-nu-pastreaza-distanta-in-magazine\/\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/07\/30\/despre-cei-care-nu-pastreaza-distanta-in-magazine\/<\/a>) \u0219i despre faptul c\u0103 \u00een perioada pandemiei cu Covid 19 se p\u0103stra spa\u021biul personal de frica \u00eemboln\u0103virii cu virusul respectiv. Dar de ce este nevoie de izbucnirea unei pandemii ca s\u0103 respect\u0103m o regul\u0103 minim\u0103 de conduit\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate ar trebui s\u0103 facem cursuri de polite\u021be sau de prezentare a codului bunelor maniere cu to\u021bi oamenii (dar, mai ales cu copiii).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M-a deranjat, zilele acestea, faptul c\u0103 oamenii nu mai respect\u0103 spa\u021biul personal. Credeam c\u0103 ignorarea acestei reguli este posibil\u0103 doar \u00een cazul copiilor (care \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u0219tiu cum stau lucrurile) &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1735"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1735"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1735\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1739,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1735\/revisions\/1739"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1735"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1735"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1735"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}