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Am observat c\u0103 avem tendin\u021ba, cu to\u021bii, s\u0103 judec\u0103m oamenii cu care intr\u0103m \u00een contact sau pe cei pe care nici m\u0103car nu \u00eei cunoa\u0219tem \u0219i s\u0103 credem cele mai rele lucruri despre ei. Nu \u0219tim s\u0103 acord\u0103m oamenilor prezum\u021bia de nevinov\u0103\u021bie \u0219i nici s\u0103 credem c\u0103, poate, ei sunt m\u00e2na\u021bi de bune inten\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 vedem partea mai pu\u021bin bun\u0103 a vie\u021bii \u0219i a oamenilor \u0219i s\u0103 ne a\u0219tept\u0103m la lucruri rele (\u0219i efecte negative ale acestora). \u0218i ne mai \u00eentreb\u0103m de ce suntem tri\u0219ti, neferici\u021bi, frustra\u021bi, irascibili \u0219i depresivi\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unde au disp\u0103rut speran\u021ba \u0219i \u00eencrederea \u00een oameni? Unde sunt dorin\u021ba de a ajuta \u0219i convingerea c\u0103 oamenii (\u00een marea lor majoritate) sunt buni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 \u0219i mass-media a avut rolul ei \u00een propagarea mentalit\u0103\u021bii c\u0103 oamenii sunt r\u0103i sau ne vor r\u0103ul. Dar, dincolo de ce spune (scrie?) presa, cred c\u0103 depinde de fiecare dintre noi cum vede lumea, cum vede oamenii \u0219i cum vrea (alege) s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A crede c\u0103 lumea este rea, c\u0103 oamenii vor doar r\u0103ul celorlal\u021bi este un mod de a tr\u0103i. Dar un mod care ne \u00eenr\u0103ie\u0219te \u0219i pe noi (ne \u00eentunec\u0103 sufletele) \u0219i ne transform \u00een pacien\u021bi ai psihologilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A crede c\u0103 oamenii sunt buni, dar au \u0219i momente proaste sau iau decizii gre\u0219ite este mai aproape de realitate \u0219i ne-ar ajuta s\u0103 nu vedem chiar totul \u00een negru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 mai d\u0103m lumii \u0219i nou\u0103 o \u0219ans\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m (s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m?) s\u0103 avem mai mult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een oameni. Adic\u0103 s\u0103 vedem \u0219i partea bun\u0103 a lor \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne concentr\u0103m pe acest lucru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este clar c\u0103 a nu vedea partea bun\u0103 a oamenilor nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 ne transform\u0103 \u00een oameni b\u0103nuitori, ne\u00eencrez\u0103tori, ne \u021bine \u00eencorda\u021bi \u00een permanen\u021b\u0103 (credem c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fim mereu preg\u0103ti\u021bi pentru lucruri rele) \u0219i nu ne d\u0103 posibilitatea s\u0103 ne relax\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 ne tr\u0103im via\u021ba a\u0219a cum vrem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este greu s\u0103 privim oamenii \u00eentr-o lumin\u0103 pozitiv\u0103 dup\u0103 ce \u00eentreaga via\u021b\u0103 am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi (educa\u021bi?) s\u0103 vedem partea mai pu\u021bin bun\u0103 a oamenilor. Apoi mai sunt \u0219i experien\u021bele negative pe care le-am tr\u0103it de-a lungul vie\u021bii care ne consolideaz\u0103 ideea c\u0103 oamenii sunt r\u0103i sau c\u0103 ne vor r\u0103ul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i totu\u0219i\u2026 fiecare dintre noi a fost ajutat necondi\u021bionat de cineva \u00een via\u021ba lui. Fiecare dintre noi a fost \u00eencurajat \u0219i sus\u021binut de oameni \u0219i \u00een momentele bune \u0219i \u00een cele mai pu\u021bin bune. Doar c\u0103 ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 d\u0103m o mai mare importan\u021b\u0103 lucrurilor negative dec\u00eet celor pozitive din via\u021ba naostr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 mai analiz\u0103m o dat\u0103 momentele bune \u0219i pe cele mai pu\u021bin bune \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 d\u0103m o \u0219ans\u0103 oamenilor \u0219i p\u0103r\u021bii bune din ace\u0219tia.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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