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Dar nu \u00een sensul de petrecere nonstop, ci \u00een sensul de relaxare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am c\u0103utat un dex online \u0219i am aflat c\u0103 distrac\u021bie \u00eenseamn\u0103: ceea ce distreaz\u0103, ceea ce produce destindere sufleteasc\u0103 sau, al doilea sens, lips\u0103 de aten\u021bie, de concentrare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen ultimul timp am avut o dilem\u0103 \u0219i am luat lucrurile at\u00e2t de \u00een serios \u00eenc\u00e2t respectiva situa\u021bie aproape c\u0103 a preluat controlul asupra vie\u021bii mele, de\u0219i nu este un lucru foarte important. Doar c\u0103 nu m\u0103 \u00eempac eu cu anumite conota\u021bii ale lui \u0219i cu eventuale consecin\u021be ale acestuia asupra vie\u021bii mele. Dar, a\u0219a cum am scris mai sus, nu este un lucru foarte important. \u0218i totu\u0219i mi-a consumat multe resurse (energie, r\u0103bdare, timp etc) \u0219i m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc foarte mult la cum s\u0103 gestionez o situa\u021bie \u00een anumite circumstan\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-a consumat at\u00e2t de mult lucrul acesta, \u00eenc\u00e2t sim\u021beam c\u0103 via\u021ba mea depindea de cum rezolvam respectiva situa\u021bie, iar, \u00een realitate, lucrurile nu stau deloc a\u0219a. Via\u021ba mea nu este influen\u021bat\u0103 \u00een p\u0103r\u021bile importante de respectivul lucru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fr\u0103m\u00e2nt\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 cum s\u0103 rezolv lucrurile, mi-am dat seama c\u0103 m-am luat prea \u00een serios \u0219i c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 destind, s\u0103 m\u0103 relaxez \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 distrez. Via\u021ba nu este doar seriozitate \u0219i responsabilitate. Via\u021ba mai este \u0219i distrac\u021bie. De ce s\u0103 nu ne distr\u0103m chiar \u0219i \u00een situa\u021bii \u00een care nu \u0219tim ce s\u0103 facem sau pe care nu \u0219tim cum s\u0103 le gestion\u0103m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dac\u0103 st\u0103m \u00eencorda\u021bi \u0219i concentra\u021bi permanent pierdem momente frumoase din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i ne crampon\u0103m de ni\u0219te lucruri, care, \u00een esen\u021b\u0103, nu sunt prea importante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Via\u021ba mea \u00eenseamn\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t lucrul respectiv, dar mi-a trebuit o perioad\u0103 lung\u0103 de timp ca s\u0103 realizez acest lucru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi-am amintit c\u0103 am scris despre seriozitate (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/06\/29\/despre-seriozitate\/<\/a>) \u0219i despre cum este s\u0103 fi serios (https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2023\/04\/11\/cum-este-sa-fi-serios\/<\/a>), dar parc\u0103 este important s\u0103 vorbim \u0219i despre destindere \u0219i distrac\u021bie. Adic\u0103 despre a trece prin via\u021b\u0103 sim\u021bind c\u0103 o tr\u0103ie\u0219ti la intensitatea pe care o vrei \u0219i s\u0103 nu sim\u021bi c\u0103 trece via\u021ba pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine \u0219i s\u0103 regre\u021bi lucruri pe care ai fi putut s\u0103 le faci, dar, pentru c\u0103 erai prea serios, nu ai avut curaj s\u0103 le faci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Este clar c\u0103 avem nevoie \u00een via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i de distrac\u021bie, nu doar de responsabilitate \u0219i seriozitate. Avem nevoie s\u0103 ne destindem, s\u0103 ne relax\u0103m, s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bine, s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de ceea ce avem \u0219i s\u0103 savur\u0103m fiecare zi a vie\u021bii noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tim (sau s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m, dac\u0103 nu \u0219tim) s\u0103 echilibr\u0103m lucrurile \u0219i s\u0103 nu ajungem s\u0103 ne l\u0103s\u0103m condu\u0219i \u00een via\u021b\u0103 doar de distrac\u021bie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dar nu \u00een sensul de petrecere nonstop, ci \u00een sensul de relaxare. Am c\u0103utat un dex online \u0219i am aflat c\u0103 distrac\u021bie \u00eenseamn\u0103: ceea ce distreaz\u0103, ceea ce produce destindere …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1680,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1646"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1646"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1646\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1647,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1646\/revisions\/1647"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1680"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1646"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1646"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1646"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}