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Dup\u0103 ce \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 comunic\u0103m cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, s\u0103 ne accept\u0103m a\u0219a cum suntem, s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi, mai g\u0103sim putere s\u0103 ne \u0219i iubim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cum putem s\u0103 oferim celor din jur dragoste, dac\u0103 noi nu \u0219tim (nu vrem sau nu putem) s\u0103 ne iubim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prin\u0219i \u00een v\u00e2ltoarea zilelor pline \u0219i dificile, prin\u0219i \u00een evenimente \u0219i lucruri care nu depind de noi, mai g\u0103sim timp \u0219i pentru noi \u00een\u0219ine? Sau g\u0103sim timp s\u0103 vedem (s\u0103 afl\u0103m) ce avem nevoie \u0219i s\u0103 ne oferim ceea ce avem nevoie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este foarte u\u0219or s\u0103 uit\u0103m de noi \u00een\u0219ine. Credem c\u0103 al\u021bi oameni sau alte lucruri sunt mai importante dec\u00e2t noi \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 ne neglij\u0103m, ajungem s\u0103 facem lucruri care nu ne caracterizeaz\u0103 sau nu ne plac \u0219i, astfel, intr\u0103m \u00een depresii sau tot felul de blocaje psihologice \u0219i emo\u021bionale din care nu \u0219tim cum s\u0103 ie\u0219im pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tim ce le-a generat (sau cum am intrat \u00een ele). <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 nu ar fi r\u0103u ca, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, s\u0103 facem \u0219i lucruri care ne plac nou\u0103 (indiferent de ceea ce spun \u0219i de ceea ce cred al\u021bii) \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 ne iubim. Sau s\u0103 facem exerci\u021bii prin care s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne iubim. Pentru c\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 avem \u0219i va fi foarte grea dac\u0103 nu ne place cine suntem sau nu ne place ce am devenit sau nu ne \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103m cu ceea de facem sau nu \u00een\u021belegem de ce facem unele lucruri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pare complicat, dar nu este deloc a\u0219a. Cred c\u0103 primul pas ar fi sinceritatea cu noi \u00een\u0219ine. Dac\u0103 am reu\u0219i s\u0103 fim complet sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine am reu\u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 ne iert\u0103m, s\u0103 ne accept\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Doar c\u0103, \u00een societatea de azi, care se afi\u0219eaz\u0103 liber\u0103 \u0219i deschis\u0103, dar \u00een care oamenii sunt judeca\u021bi foarte u\u0219or \u0219i foarte aspru pentru ceea ce spun sau ceea ce fac, \u00eenainte s\u0103 apuce s\u0103 explice de ce au spus sau de ce au f\u0103cut un lucru, ajungem s\u0103 ne ascundem de to\u021bi, inclusiv de noi \u00een\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate dac\u0103 am \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba s\u0103 ne iubim pe noi, am vedea c\u0103 \u0219i oamenilor din jurul nostru le este mai u\u0219or s\u0103 ne iubeasc\u0103, s\u0103 ne \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 comunice cu noi. Un om \u00eemp\u0103cat cu el \u00eensu\u0219i, un om care se cunoa\u0219te pe sine \u0219i care se iube\u0219te pe sine este un om puternic, pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i cunoa\u0219te calit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i defectele, punctele tari \u0219i punctele slabe \u0219i \u0219tie s\u0103 se pun\u0103 \u00een valoare. \u0218tie ce lupte s\u0103 duc\u0103, \u0219tie s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i stabileasc\u0103 priorit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i pentru ce merit\u0103 s\u0103 lupte. \u0218i este foarte greu de manipulat \u0219i de controlat un astfel de om.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De\u0219i nu cred c\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 ne iubim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine, ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m, m\u0103car din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, s\u0103 privim spre noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i s\u0103 afl\u0103m cum suntem. \u0218i poate facem \u0219i c\u00e2teva exerci\u021bii de iubire a sinelui.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Dup\u0103 ce \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 comunic\u0103m cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, s\u0103 ne accept\u0103m a\u0219a cum suntem, s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi, mai g\u0103sim putere s\u0103 ne \u0219i iubim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine? Cum …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1665,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1640"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1640"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1640\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1641,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1640\/revisions\/1641"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1665"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1640"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1640"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1640"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}