{"id":1624,"date":"2023-05-01T15:20:58","date_gmt":"2023-05-01T12:20:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1624"},"modified":"2023-05-01T15:20:59","modified_gmt":"2023-05-01T12:20:59","slug":"fiecare-prietenie-isi-are-cicatricile-ei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1624","title":{"rendered":"Fiecare prietenie \u00ee\u0219i are cicatricile ei"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am g\u0103sit aceast\u0103 expresie \u00eentr-o carte \u0219i mi-a pl\u0103cut. De fapt, ini\u021bial, m-a intrigat. Pentru c\u0103 prieteniile \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 ai al\u0103turi oameni pe care \u00eei iube\u0219ti, oameni cu care \u00ee\u021bi place s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i petreci timpul, oameni cu care \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219ti moment pl\u0103cute, experien\u021be frumoase, pasiuni sau c\u0103rora le aloci resuse (timp, aten\u021bie, r\u0103bdare etc).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd am citit, prima dat\u0103, expresia din titul articolului, nu am \u00een\u021beles-o pentru c\u0103 no\u021biunile de prietenie \u0219i de cicatrice nu mi se par (p\u0103reau?) compatibile \u0219i nu \u00een\u021belegeau cum au ajuns \u00een aceea\u0219i fraz\u0103. \u0218i totu\u0219i\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>DEX-ul din biblioteca mea define\u0219te prietenia astfel:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Sentiment de simpatie, de stim\u0103, de respect, de ata\u0219ament reciproc care leag\u0103 dou\u0103 persoane; leg\u0103tur\u0103 care se stabile\u0219te \u00eentre persoane, pe baza acestor sentimente; amici\u021bie, priete\u0219ug.<\/li><li>Atitudine plin\u0103 de bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103, prietenoas\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva.<\/li><li>Leg\u0103tur\u0103 dintre grupuri sociale, \u00eentre popoare, \u00eentre \u021b\u0103ri bazat\u0103 pe aspira\u021bii, n\u0103zuin\u021be, interese commune.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe de alt\u0103 parte, Dic\u021bionarul Explicativ al Limbii Rom\u00e2ne pe care \u00eel am eu define\u0219te cicatricea drept urm\u0103 l\u0103sat\u0103 de o ran\u0103, de o t\u0103ietur\u0103, dup\u0103 vindecare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 este s\u0103 pornesc de la defini\u021bii, nu prea au loc \u00een aceea\u0219i fraz\u0103 leg\u0103tura dintre doi oameni bazat\u0103 pe simpatie sau ata\u0219ament reciproc cu urmele l\u0103sate de r\u0103ni. \u00cens\u0103, \u00een orice rela\u021bie (inclusiv \u00een cele de prietenie) pot ap\u0103rea moment \u0219i mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute (pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 cele pl\u0103cute) \u0219i pot ap\u0103rea lucruri, situa\u021bii, evenimente care pot r\u0103ni. Astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t abia acum \u00eencep s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg leg\u0103tura dintre prietenie \u0219i cicatrice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cens\u0103, cicatrici adev\u0103rate apar \u00een prieteniile care reu\u0219esc s\u0103 reziste \u00een timp (s\u0103 treac\u0103 proba timpului \u2013 cum le place unora s\u0103 spun\u0103).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi am avut astfel de rela\u021bii apropiate cu oameni pe care ne bazam \u00een orice situa\u021bie \u0219i al\u0103turi de care ne vedeam \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nind, unele dintre ele reu\u0219ind s\u0103 treac\u0103 proba timpului, altele \u00eens\u0103 (majoritatea) r\u0103m\u00e2n\u00e2nd doar simple momente frumoase tr\u0103ite al\u0103turi de unii oameni \u00een anumite perioade de timp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Expresia din titlul articolului, \u00een cartea \u00een care am g\u0103sit-o, se referea la rela\u021bia dintre doi oameni pentru o perioad\u0103 lung\u0103 de timp, doi oameni foarte diferi\u021bi, dar care se cuno\u0219teau din copil\u0103rie \u0219i care s-au sus\u021binut unul pe cel\u0103lalt de-a lungul copil\u0103riri, adolescen\u021bei \u0219i tinere\u021bii, ajung\u00e2nd la maturitate doi oameni puternici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-a pl\u0103cut referirea la cicatrici pentru c\u0103 prietenia nu este doar acea apropiere de oameni care ne plac sau al\u0103turi de care ne sim\u021bim bine, prietenia este mult mai profund\u0103, mai important dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen lumea de azi, c\u00e2nd totul este imagine \u0219i superficialitate, folosim foarte u\u0219or termenul de prietenie fa\u021b\u0103 de oameni pe care, de fapt, nu \u00eei cunoa\u0219tem sau despre care nu \u0219tim mare lucru, iar expresia Fiecare prietenie \u00ee\u0219i are cicatricile ei mi-a (re)amintit toate aceste lucruri.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am g\u0103sit aceast\u0103 expresie \u00eentr-o carte \u0219i mi-a pl\u0103cut. De fapt, ini\u021bial, m-a intrigat. Pentru c\u0103 prieteniile \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 ai al\u0103turi oameni pe care \u00eei iube\u0219ti, oameni cu care \u00ee\u021bi &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1624"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1625,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624\/revisions\/1625"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1624"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1624"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1624"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}