{"id":1615,"date":"2023-04-24T16:15:58","date_gmt":"2023-04-24T13:15:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1615"},"modified":"2023-04-24T16:16:00","modified_gmt":"2023-04-24T13:16:00","slug":"stim-sa-avem-grija-de-noi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1615","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218tim s\u0103 ne pre\u021buim? S\u0103 ne punem pe locul \u00eent\u00e2i \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu ne neglij\u0103m?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne fie bine nou\u0103, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, pentru a putea face, apoi, bine celor din jur. Nu avem cum s\u0103 devenim um\u0103rul pe care ace\u0219tia se sprijin\u0103 la greu sau persoana cu care \u00eempart \u0219i bucuriile \u0219i grijile, dac\u0103 noi nu suntem bine, nu ne sim\u021bim bine \u0219i nu avem grij\u0103 de noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Problema este c\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre noi nu se consider\u0103 o prioritate \u00een via\u021ba lor. Adic\u0103 ei \u00eei v\u0103d importan\u021bi pe cei dragi lor \u0219i pe cei care \u0219tiu s\u0103 atrag\u0103 aten\u021bia sau s\u0103 se dea importan\u021bi (de\u0219i nu \u00eentotdeauna chiar sunt importan\u021bi).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt sigur\u0103 c\u0103 mul\u021bi dintre noi sacrific\u0103 multe lucruri pentru cei dragi \u0219i, \u00een principal, renun\u021b\u0103 la lucruri legate de ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i (adic\u0103 timpul pe care ar fi trebuit s\u0103 \u00eel petreac\u0103 relax\u00e2ndu-se sau f\u0103c\u00e2nd ceva ce le place sau ce \u00ee\u0219i doreau s\u0103 fac\u0103).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oare de ce nu \u00een\u021beleg oamenii de azi c\u0103 ei sunt personajele principale \u00een via\u021ba lor, ei sunt cei care pot lua deciziile importante (\u0219i pe cele mai pu\u021bin importante) \u0219i pot hot\u0103r\u00ee p\u00e2n\u0103 unde merg cu ceea ce fac pentru ceilal\u021bi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u0103 via\u021ba trebuie tr\u0103it\u0103 direct, nu prin intermediul altor persoane? Cum po\u021bi s\u0103 spui c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti dac\u0103 nu po\u021bi vorbi despre experien\u021be personale, ci despre experien\u021bele altora?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne l\u0103s\u0103m lua\u021bi de viteza vie\u021bii cotidiene \u0219i nu realiz\u0103m cum trece timpul (cred c\u0103 to\u021bi am avut o reac\u021bie de genul: deja este Pa\u0219tele anul acesta? Parc\u0103 ieri era Revelionul \u0219i chiar nu \u0219tiu c\u00e2nd a trecut\/zburat timpul!) \u0219i via\u021ba trece pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi pentru c\u0103 nu avem curaj s\u0103 tr\u0103im a\u0219a cum ne dorim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd m\u0103 uit la genera\u021biile anterioare (p\u0103rin\u021bii \u0219i bunicii no\u0219tri) \u0219i v\u0103d cum s-au chinuit s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een condi\u021bii vitrege, parc\u0103 \u00eemi vine s\u0103 strig c\u0103 este timpul ca oamenii s\u0103 se trezeasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 a\u0219a cum vor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar, se pare c\u0103 nu \u0219tim s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m de la cei mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 dec\u00e2t noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu prea \u0219tim s\u0103 ne stabilim priorit\u0103\u021bile (am scris despre priorit\u0103\u021bi \u00een luna august 2021 <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/08\/09\/despre-prioritati\/\">https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/08\/09\/despre-prioritati\/<\/a>) astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t noi s\u0103 fim pe primul loc, nu partea material\u0103 a vie\u021bii, locul de munc\u0103, copiii, p\u0103rin\u021bii etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uit\u0103m s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi, uit\u0103m s\u0103 facem ce ne place sau ce ne dorim s\u0103 facem \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 str\u00e2ngem frustr\u0103ri, triste\u021be, nervozitate, sup\u0103r\u0103ri \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de ceea ce avem (at\u00e2t c\u00e2t este: pu\u021bin sau mult), de oamenii pe care \u00eei avem l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi \u0219i de fiecare zi a vie\u021bii noastre.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0218tim s\u0103 ne pre\u021buim? S\u0103 ne punem pe locul \u00eent\u00e2i \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu ne neglij\u0103m? Ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne fie bine nou\u0103, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1615"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1615"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1615\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1616,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1615\/revisions\/1616"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1615"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1615"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1615"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}