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Cred c\u0103 acesta este un articol din categoria 40 plus, pentru c\u0103 nu aveam astfel de tr\u0103iri (nu m\u0103 luptam cu mine \u00eens\u0103mi) c\u00e2nd eram t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103. Adic\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd voiam ceva, luam acel lucru sau f\u0103ceam tot ce puteam s\u0103 ajung la acel lucru, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la consecin\u021be sau la faptul c\u0103, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, voi pl\u0103ti un pre\u021b pentru c\u0103 am ob\u021binut ceea ce \u00eemi doream (sau ceea ce \u00eemi pl\u0103cea).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acum, la v\u00e2rsta maturit\u0103\u021bii, constat c\u0103 nu mai este at\u00e2t de simplu ca atunci. Pentru c\u0103 realizez c\u0103 toate ac\u021biunile mele (\u0219i tot ceea ce fac) au consecin\u021be (asupra mea \u0219i asupra celor dragi) \u0219i mai realizez c\u0103 tot ceea ce am ob\u021binut are un pre\u021b pe care abia t\u00e2rziu realizez c\u0103 l-am pl\u0103tit. Sau realizez c\u0103 ceea ce mi-am dorit nu merita pre\u021bul pe care l-am pl\u0103tit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este greu c\u00e2nd te lup\u021bi cu tine \u00eensu\u021bi\/\u00eens\u0103\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 orice s-ar \u00eent\u00e2mpla, ai \u0219i de pierdut \u0219i de c\u00e2\u0219tigat, \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Partea ra\u021bional\u0103 din tine (cea matur\u0103, cea experimentat\u0103) va aduce argumente \u00een favoarea a ceea ce trebuie s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple sau a ceea ce este corect s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple. Te va aten\u021biona asupra lucrurilor \u0219i persoanelor pe care le-ai putea pierde dac\u0103 alegi s\u0103 mergi mai departe \u0219i te va \u00eentreba dac\u0103 merit\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti intens 5 minute \u0219i s\u0103 pl\u0103te\u0219ti o via\u021b\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103. Partea ta matur\u0103 va vrea s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 e\u0219ti preg\u0103tit s\u0103 pl\u0103te\u0219ti pentru ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti, pentru c\u0103 experien\u021ba de via\u021b\u0103 de p\u00e2n\u0103 acum te-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 tot ce faci \u0219i tot ce spui are consecin\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Partea ta emo\u021bional\u0103 (cea care vrea s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219te, cea care simte pasiune, cea care vrea senza\u021bii puternice) va veni cu partea senzorial\u0103. Va sus\u021bine c\u0103 ai doar o via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i merit\u0103 s\u0103 o tr\u0103ie\u0219ti din plin, indiferent de ceea ce ai de pierdut. Te va face s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 te mai po\u021bi sim\u021bi t\u00e2n\u0103r (\u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 responsabilit\u0103\u021bi) \u0219i te va convinge s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti \u00een primul r\u00e2nd la tine (la ceea ce sim\u021bi, la ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti), f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te mai g\u00e2nde\u0219ti \u0219i cum \u00eei va afecta pe ceilal\u021bi ceea ce faci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este complicat\u0103 confruntarea \u00eentre maturitate \u0219i senzorialitate, \u00eentre experien\u021ba de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i impulsivitate, \u00eentre ceea ce este corect s\u0103 facem \u0219i ceea ce ne dorim s\u0103 facem. \u0218i, uneori, aceast\u0103 lupt\u0103 interioar\u0103 ne transform\u0103 \u00een al\u021bi oameni: ne face confuzi, irascibili, ne\u00een\u021bele\u0219i, ne cauzeaz\u0103 frustrare \u0219i sup\u0103rare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dintr-o astfel de lupt\u0103 interioar\u0103 ie\u0219im sigur \u0219ifona\u021bi, pentru c\u0103, de\u0219i vom c\u00e2\u0219tiga experien\u021b\u0103 de via\u021b\u0103, \u00een realitate, pe moment, oricum vom suferi, orice decizie am lua (oricare din p\u0103r\u021bile noastre interioare ar c\u00e2\u0219tiga). R\u0103m\u00e2ne s\u0103 ne \u0219i \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103m suflete\u0219te cu decizia luat\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 o accept\u0103m \u00een totalitatea ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar toate aceste etape dureaz\u0103 (indiferent dac\u0103 ne place sau nu). Iar noi nu prea avem r\u0103bdare s\u0103 trecem prin ele.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Cred c\u0103 acesta este un articol din categoria 40 plus, pentru c\u0103 nu aveam astfel de tr\u0103iri (nu m\u0103 luptam cu mine \u00eens\u0103mi) c\u00e2nd eram t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103. Adic\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd voiam …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1602"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1602"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1602\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1603,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1602\/revisions\/1603"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1602"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1602"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1602"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}