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Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi am trecut prin momente \u00een care a trebuit s\u0103 \u00eenfrunt\u0103m temeri, sentimente, prejudec\u0103\u021bi etc. \u0218i, uneori, dup\u0103 ce am luat o decizie \u00een privin\u021ba aceasta (\u00een sensul \u00eenfrunt\u0103rii, nu al fugii de respective situa\u021bie), ne este greu s\u0103 mergem mai departe. \u0218i nu pentru c\u0103 am fi la\u0219i sau pentru c\u0103 nu am mai avea curaj, ci pentru c\u0103 realiz\u0103m c\u0103 respectiva \u00eenfruntare poate avea un cost (un pre\u021b) \u0219i ni\u0219te consecin\u021be, la fel de negative pe c\u00e2t de pozitive le credem (le a\u0219tept\u0103m?) noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De multe ori, ne trebuie o perioad\u0103 de timp p\u00e2n\u0103 identific\u0103m pa\u0219ii necesari aducerii la \u00eendeplinire a respectivei hot\u0103r\u00e2ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Iar, alteori, nu mai g\u0103sim \u00een noi puterea de a duce la cap\u0103t respectiva decizie \u0219i ne pierdem undeva pe drum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eu voiam s\u0103 m\u0103 opresc doar la nesiguran\u021ba pe care o avem (o sim\u021bim) \u00een prima faz\u0103 dup\u0103 luarea deciziei de a face ceva. De\u0219i, \u00een mintea noastr\u0103 lucrurile ar trebui s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare \u00eentr-un anumit mod, \u00eencepem s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim c\u0103 este posibil ca \u00een realitate lucrurile s\u0103 evolueze un pic altfel. \u0218i \u00eencepem s\u0103 ne temem de consecin\u021bele respectivei decizii, de\u0219i noi le-am acceptat atunci c\u00e2nd am analizat situa\u021bia \u0219i am luat decizia \u00eenfrunt\u0103rii situa\u021biei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd suntem tineri, nu reu\u0219im s\u0103 vedem respectiva \u00eemprejurare din mai multe puncte de vedere, ci doar din al nostru \u0219i credem c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea g\u00e2nde\u0219te (sau ar trebui s\u0103 g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103) exact ca noi \u0219i acest lucru ne d\u0103 curajul pentru a merge mai departe \u00een decizia luat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
La maturitate, c\u00e2nd deja \u0219tim c\u0103 nu to\u021bi g\u00eendim la fel \u0219i c\u0103 putem \u00eent\u00e2mpina tot felul de piedici \u0219i reac\u021bii privind comportamentul nostru sau privind ceea ce facem, ce spunem etc, suntem mai aten\u021bi \u0219i nu mai facem at\u00e2t de u\u0219or pa\u0219ii spre punerea \u00een aplicare a respectivei decizii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a cum spuneam mai sus, acest lucru nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu avem destul curaj s\u0103 \u00eenfrunt\u0103m situa\u021bia respectiv\u0103, ci doar c\u0103 devenim con\u0219tien\u021bi de mult mai multe lucruri legate de ceea ce vrem s\u0103 \u00eenfrunt\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Probabil c\u0103 este necesar s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m (\u0219i s\u0103 g\u0103sim) \u00een noi puterea de a merge mai departe \u0219i de a ne \u00eenfrunta temerile \u0219i sentimentele. Probabil c\u0103 este nevoie de acest filtru al fricii de consecin\u021be ca s\u0103 realiz\u0103m dac\u0103 este cu adev\u0103rat important s\u0103 ducem respectiva decizie la final sau s\u0103 ne oprim, pentru c\u0103 nu suntem preg\u0103ti\u021bi s\u0103 pl\u0103tim pre\u021bul pe care ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eel pl\u0103tim.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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