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Ce facem cu sentimentele pe care le avem atunci c\u00e2nd nu reu\u0219im s\u0103 ob\u021binem lucruri pe care ni le dorim? Ce facem c\u00e2nd nu reu\u0219im s\u0103 avem al\u0103turi oameni pe care i-am dorit l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi? Cum sc\u0103p\u0103m de senza\u021bia nepl\u0103cut\u0103 de e\u0219ec \u0219i cum ne obi\u0219nuim s\u0103 uit\u0103m ceea ce ne doream (pentru c\u0103 nu putem ob\u021bine) \u0219i s\u0103 privim spre alte lucruri \u0219i spre al\u021bi oameni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Noi, oamenii, avem o problem\u0103 mare: vrem ca dorin\u021bele noastre s\u0103 se \u00eemplineasc\u0103 foarte repede (foarte cur\u00e2nd), adic\u0103 am vrea totul din prima \u00eencercare, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 depunem vreun efort, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u0103tim vreun pre\u021b, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pierdem nimic (\u0219i pe nimeni) din via\u021ba noastr\u0103. Doar c\u0103, de multe ori, drumul pentru a ob\u021bine ce ne dorim ne face (ne oblig\u0103?) s\u0103 ne maturiz\u0103m, s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 via\u021ba nu este doar a\u0219a cum vrem noi, c\u0103 mai trebuie s\u0103 mai \u021binem cont \u0219i de alte persoane. \u0218i c\u0103 ceea ce ne dorim la 20 de ani, nu ne mai dorim \u0219i la 40 de ani, adic\u0103 dorin\u021bele noastre se cam schimb\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eenaint\u0103m \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u0219i ni se schimb\u0103 \u0219i priorit\u0103\u021bile, \u0219i gusturile\u2026 Chiar \u0219i noi ne schimb\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i atunci cum r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu dorin\u021bele ne\u00eemplinite? Cred c\u0103 depinde de fiecare dintre noi, de dorin\u021b\u0103, de ceea ce am f\u0103cut pentru a \u00eencerca s\u0103 o \u00eemplinim, de ceea ce suntem dispu\u0219i s\u0103 d\u0103m (s\u0103 ced\u0103m?) pentru a ob\u021bine ceea ce ne dorim\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Unii ajung s\u0103 fie obseda\u021bi de ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc \u0219i pl\u0103tesc orice pre\u021b li se cere, renun\u021b\u00e2nd la ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i (sau la o parte din ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i) doar pentru a ob\u021bine ceea ce voiau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Al\u021bii apreciaz\u0103 drumul spre a ob\u021bine ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc, apreciaz\u0103 lucrurile pe care le \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 astfel, apreciaz\u0103 oamenii cu care ajung s\u0103 intre \u00een contact \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i construiesc o via\u021b\u0103 frumoas\u0103 pe drumul spre ceea ce au visat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi sunt cei care consider\u0103 c\u0103 tot acest drum de c\u0103utare a ceea ce ne dorim este o pierdere de timp \u0219i c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ne mul\u021bumim cu ceea ce avem, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la mai mult dec\u00e2t at\u00e2t. Ei doar \u00ee\u0219i doresc ceva, dar nu fac nimic pentru a ob\u021bine ceea ce vor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mai sunt cei care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 gestioneze faptul c\u0103 nu au reu\u0219it s\u0103 aib\u0103 ceea ce \u0219i-au dorit, consider\u0103 c\u0103 \u0219i-au irosit via\u021ba \u0219i \u00eencep s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eentreaga experien\u021b\u0103 nu a meritat, c\u0103 regret\u0103 toate lucrurile pe care le-au f\u0103cut p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci, nerealiz\u00e2nd c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i neag\u0103 (reneag\u0103?) o perioad\u0103 important\u0103 din via\u021ba lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Chiar nu \u0219tiu ce este de f\u0103cut cu dorin\u021bele ne\u00eemplinite. Poate c\u0103 ar trebui, din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd s\u0103 le evalu\u0103m (reevalu\u0103m?) ca s\u0103 fim siguri c\u0103 ne mai dorim acele lucruri \u0219i c\u0103 merit\u0103 s\u0103 lupt\u0103m \u00een continuare pentru ele.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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