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To\u021bi am \u00eencercat sentimentul de ur\u0103, la un moment dat, \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103, pentru c\u0103 to\u021bi am suferit cumva \u0219i ne-am canalizat energia negativ\u0103 spre ura \u00eempotriva cuiva pe care \u00eel credeam vinovat, \u00eentr-o form\u0103 sau alta, de suferin\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen ziua de azi oamenii ur\u0103sc foarte repede \u0219i duc ura spre obsesie destul de u\u0219or. Pe mine m\u0103 deranjeaz\u0103 c\u0103 folosesc foarte u\u0219or cuv\u00e2ntul ur\u0103, ne\u00een\u021beleg\u00e2nd de fapt \u00een\u021belesul acestuia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dic\u021bionarul Explicativ al Limbii Rom\u00e2ne pe care \u00eel am eu define\u0219te ura drept: sentiment puternic, nest\u0103p\u00e2nit de du\u0219m\u0103nie fa\u021b\u0103 de cineva sau de ceva. Cu sate cuvinte, ura \u00eenseamn\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t faptul c\u0103 nu ne place cineva sau ceva, c\u0103 ne deranjeaz\u0103 prezen\u021ba cuiva sau c\u0103 nu suntem de accord cu ce spune sau ce face alt\u0103 persoan\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pentru c\u0103 se simt tr\u0103da\u021bi, \u00een\u0219ela\u021bi, pentru c\u0103 sunt sup\u0103ra\u021bi sau frustra\u021bi, oamenii de azi folosesc foarte repede \u0219i foarte des cuv\u00e2ntul ur\u0103, nefiind con\u0219tien\u021bi de impactul acestuia asupra celorlal\u021bi (asupra celor c\u0103rora \u00eel adreseaz\u0103, dar \u0219i asupra celor care sunt de fa\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd folosesc acest termen).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este firesc s\u0103 reac\u021bion\u0103m puternic \u0219i \u00een sens negative atunci c\u00e2nd suferim, atunci c\u00e2nd ne sim\u021bim nedrept\u0103\u021bi\u021bi, atunci c\u00e2nd ni se pare c\u0103 oamenii (dac\u0103 nu cumva \u00eentreaga lume) ne sunt \u00eempotriv\u0103 (sau aceasta este impresia noastr\u0103), dar, parc\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fim mai aten\u021bi la limbaj \u0219i la comportament, mai ales c\u00e2nd nu cunoa\u0219tem toate elementele situa\u021biei respective.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat s\u0103 v\u0103d oameni care acum spuneau c\u0103 ur\u0103sc anumite persoane, pentru ca, dup\u0103 perioade foarte scurte de timp s\u0103 \u00eei v\u0103d \u00eempreun\u0103 cu persoanele pe care spuneau c\u0103 le ur\u0103sc, p\u0103r\u00e2nd a se \u00eemp\u0103ca destul de bine. Iar eu eram uimit\u0103 v\u0103z\u00e2nd aceste comportamente mai pu\u021bin normale \u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2neam \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 care este de fapt adev\u0103rul \u0219i dac\u0103 respectivii oameni chiar urau acele persoane sau doar s-au desc\u0103rcat de o energie negativ\u0103 pe care o resim\u021beau atunci c\u00e2nd spuneau c\u0103 simt ur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi am v\u0103zut oameni care au devenit obseda\u021bi de sentimentele negative pe care le simt \u0219i care au l\u0103sat ura s\u0103 le conduc\u0103 via\u021ba, ei nemai\u0219tiind s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 altfel, nemai\u0219tiind cum s\u0103 scape de ur\u0103 \u0219i de toate lucrurile negative care o \u00eenso\u021besc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u0103 uime\u0219te u\u0219urin\u021ba cu care, \u00een societatea de azi, escaladeaz\u0103 conflictele \u0219i ajung s\u0103 se urasc\u0103 oameni care nici m\u0103car nu se cunosc. Sau ajung s\u0103 se urasc\u0103 oameni doar pentru c\u0103 preiau de la cei din jurul lor sentimentele negative pe care le au fa\u021b\u0103 de al\u021bii, f\u0103r\u0103 ca ei s\u0103 fi suferit \u00een vreun fel din cauza acelor persoane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Poate c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 nu mai folosim termenul de ur\u0103 at\u00e2t de u\u0219or \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 alung\u0103m din vie\u021bile noastre sentimentele negative \u0219i efectele lor asupra noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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