{"id":1567,"date":"2023-03-30T18:32:37","date_gmt":"2023-03-30T15:32:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1567"},"modified":"2023-03-30T18:32:37","modified_gmt":"2023-03-30T15:32:37","slug":"stim-sa-fim-optimisti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1567","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tim s\u0103 fim optimi\u0219ti?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care suntem asedia\u021bi cu \u0219tiri bomb\u0103, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care dup\u0103 pandemia de Covid 19 a venit r\u0103zboiul, apoi criza energetic\u0103, de parc\u0103 doar lucruri rele se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 pe lume, mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai fim optimi\u0219ti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care zilnic ni se preveste\u0219te sf\u00e2r\u0219itul lumii, o lume \u00een care nu mai avem timp \u0219i nici r\u0103bdare s\u0103 \u00eei privim pe ceilal\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim lumea \u0219i cu alte persoane, mai este loc \u0219i pentru lucruri pozitive?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care to\u021bi alerg\u0103m dup\u0103 un trai mai bun, dup\u0103 lucruri c\u00e2t mai frumoase \u0219i c\u00e2t mai scumpe, mai este loc \u0219i pentru speran\u021b\u0103 de mai bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 purta\u021bi de lumea \u00een care tr\u0103im \u0219i c\u0103reia ne-am adaptat, \u00eentr-un fel sau altul, ne l\u0103s\u0103m influen\u021ba\u021bi de subiectele pe care le vedem \u00een jurul nostru (r\u0103zboi, criz\u0103 energetic\u0103, boli etc) \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 fim foarte negativi, foarte sup\u0103ra\u021bi (pe via\u021b\u0103) \u0219i foarte agita\u021bi. \u0218i uit\u0103m de ce mai tr\u0103im. Uit\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im. Uit\u0103m c\u0103 via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u0219i altceva dec\u00e2t subiectele prezente la televizor sau \u00een mediul online \u0219i c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 tr\u0103im pentru noi, nu pentru ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dic\u021bionarul Explicativ al Limbii Rom\u00e2ne pe care \u00eel am eu define\u0219te optimismul drept: concep\u021bie filosofic\u0103 potrivit c\u0103reia \u00een lume binele precump\u0103ne\u0219te asupra r\u0103ului, iar lumea existent\u0103 este cea mai bun\u0103 dintre lumile posibile; atitudine a omului care prive\u0219te cu \u00eencredere via\u021ba \u0219i viitorul; tendin\u021ba de a vedea latura bun\u0103, favorabil\u0103 a lucrurilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi-a\u0219 dori s\u0103 v\u0103d \u00een c\u00e2t mai mul\u021bi oameni optimismul din a doua defini\u021bie din DEX, adic\u0103 mi-a\u0219 dori ca mai mul\u021bi dintre ace\u0219tia s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 via\u021ba \u0219i viitorul cu \u00eencredere, nu cu team\u0103,&nbsp; cu ne\u00eencredere sau cu sup\u0103rare, a\u0219a cum v\u0103d c\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am r\u0103mas suprins\u0103 c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd am deschis subiecte noi cu oamenii din jurul meu \u0219i c\u00e2nd am \u00eencercat s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem unele lucruri, aproape to\u021bi au pornit cu ideea c\u0103 oamenii sunt coruptibili, c\u0103 oamenii au propriile lor interese \u0219i c\u0103 doar acest lucru conteaz\u0103, c\u0103 oamenii nu sunt buni, c\u0103 oamenii sunt influen\u021babili \u00een sens negativ etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M-a surprins acest lucru pentru c\u0103 eu nu cred c\u0103 oamenii sunt a\u0219a, cred c\u0103 au o parte bun\u0103 pe care \u00eens\u0103 o ascund s\u0103 nu fie v\u0103zut\u0103 (observat\u0103) repede, pentru c\u0103 au fost r\u0103ni\u021bi de unii dintre noi. Problema este c\u0103 ascunz\u00e2ndu-se de ceilal\u021bi, ajung s\u0103 se ascund\u0103 \u0219i de ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i \u0219i astfel nu mai tr\u0103iesc via\u021ba lor, ci o via\u021b\u0103 dominat\u0103 de suferin\u021ba prin care au trecut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 fie optimi\u0219ti pentru c\u0103 nu sunt \u00eencuraja\u021bi s\u0103 fie optimi\u0219ti, ci s\u0103 fie pesimi\u0219ti \u0219i s\u0103 vad\u0103 ce este mai r\u0103u \u00een ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Poate c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 ne mai d\u0103m \u0219i nou\u0103 \u00een\u0219ine, dar \u0219i celorlal\u021bi o \u0219ans\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 nu mai fim at\u00e2t de negativi, de sup\u0103ra\u021bi \u0219i de tri\u0219ti, pentru c\u0103 optimisul vine cu energia pozitiv\u0103, cu \u00eencredere, cu bucurie \u0219i cu adev\u0103ratul sens al vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00centr-o lume \u00een care suntem asedia\u021bi cu \u0219tiri bomb\u0103, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care dup\u0103 pandemia de Covid 19 a venit r\u0103zboiul, apoi criza energetic\u0103, de parc\u0103 doar lucruri rele se &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1567"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1567"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1567\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1568,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1567\/revisions\/1568"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1567"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1567"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1567"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}