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Fiecare dintre noi a trecut, \u00een timpul vie\u021bii, prin momente bune \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin bune, prin momente frumoase \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin frumoase. Atunci c\u00e2nd trecem prin clipe grele, afl\u0103m cine ne sprijin\u0103, cine este l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi, cine vrea s\u0103 ne ajute, dar, \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103 constat\u0103m \u0219i cine las\u0103 un gol \u00een jurul nostru prin absen\u021b\u0103 sau pentru cine nu suntem o prioritate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sunt mai multe momente grele \u00een via\u021b\u0103: cele legate de s\u0103n\u0103tate, cele legate de probleme emo\u021bionale (pierderea unor oameni dragi, desp\u0103r\u021biri de oameni dragi etc), cele legate de via\u021ba profesional\u0103 (generate de problemele de la locul de munc\u0103) etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uneori, r\u0103m\u00e2n l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi, \u00een momente grele, oameni de la care nu a\u0219teptam nimic, iar oamenii pe care \u00eei credeam trup \u0219i suflet al\u0103turi de noi nu ne aloc\u0103 niciun fel de resurse (timp, energie, aten\u021bie etc).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cen multe situa\u021bii, \u00eei cunoa\u0219tem pe cei de l\u00e2ng\u0103 noi \u0219i ei ne r\u0103m\u00e2n al\u0103turi \u0219i la bine \u0219i la r\u0103u, doar c\u0103, uneori, ni se strecoar\u0103 \u00een vie\u021bi (\u0219i \u00een suflete) oameni care nu merit\u0103 s\u0103 ne fie al\u0103turi \u0219i care ne dezam\u0103gesc prin comportamentul lor fa\u021b\u0103 de noi \u00een momente dificile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dar nu voiam s\u0103 vorbesc despre lucruri negative, despre dezam\u0103giri, despre oameni care ne-au f\u0103cut s\u0103 suferim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 opresc doar la p\u0103r\u021bile pozitive, adic\u0103 la oamenii care ne sunt al\u0103turi atunci c\u00e2nd avem nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acei oameni pe care ne putem baza ca s\u0103 nu ajungem \u00een depresie, acei oameni pe um\u0103rul c\u0103rora putem s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngem f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fim judeca\u021bi, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fim certa\u021bi, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 fim trata\u021bi ur\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acei oameni pe care \u00eei intereseaz\u0103 cum suntem (cum ne sim\u021bim) \u0219i ne \u00eentreab\u0103 acest lucru atunci c\u00e2nd \u0219tiu c\u0103 trecem prin momente mai pu\u021bin pl\u0103cute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acei oameni pe care \u00eei sim\u021bim al\u0103turi de sufletul nostru \u0219i care \u00ee\u0219i ofer\u0103 ajutorul chiar \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu \u00eel cerem (nu \u0219tim s\u0103 \u00eel cerem sau nu avem curaj s\u0103 \u00eel cerem).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acei oameni care reu\u0219esc s\u0103 ne fac\u0103 s\u0103 vezdem situa\u021bia \u00een care ne afl\u0103m din alt unghi de vedere \u0219i care ne arat\u0103 c\u0103 avem motive s\u0103 nu mai fim at\u00e2t de tri\u0219ti, s\u0103 nu mai fim at\u00e2t de sup\u0103ra\u021bi, s\u0103 nu mai fim at\u00e2t de prin\u0219i \u00een partea negativ\u0103 a vie\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acei oameni care ne \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 s\u0103 vedem \u0219i partea bun\u0103 a vie\u021bii, chiar dac\u0103 noi credem c\u0103 nu mai exist\u0103 nimic pozitiv \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este important s\u0103 \u0219tim (s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m) s\u0103 \u00eei p\u0103str\u0103m \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 pe ace\u0219ti oameni \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 \u00eei ajut\u0103m \u0219i noi atunci c\u00e2nd ei trec prin momente grele.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Fiecare dintre noi a trecut, \u00een timpul vie\u021bii, prin momente bune \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin bune, prin momente frumoase \u0219i momente mai pu\u021bin frumoase. Atunci c\u00e2nd trecem prin clipe grele, …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1565"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1565"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1565\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1566,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1565\/revisions\/1566"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1565"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1565"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1565"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}