{"id":1543,"date":"2023-03-19T17:55:13","date_gmt":"2023-03-19T15:55:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1543"},"modified":"2023-03-19T17:55:14","modified_gmt":"2023-03-19T15:55:14","slug":"de-ce-ne-concentram-asupra-lucrurilor-negative-din-viata-noastra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1543","title":{"rendered":"De ce ne concentr\u0103m asupra lucrurilor negative din via\u021ba noastr\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oamenii din ziua de azi sunt tri\u0219ti, concentra\u021bi, sup\u0103ra\u021bi, \u00een criz\u0103 de timp sau de bani \u0219i neferici\u021bi. Rar \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti oameni care s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103 sau care s\u0103 fie mul\u021bumi\u021bi (ferici\u021bi) cu via\u021ba pe care o au, de\u0219i via\u021ba lor este mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t a p\u0103rin\u021bilor \u0219i bunicilor lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb: ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu oamenii de azi care se concentreaz\u0103 pe aspectele negative ale vie\u021bii? De ce, oare, oamenii de azi nu v\u0103d \u0219i lucrurile bune pe care le au \u00een via\u021b\u0103? De ce nu le sunt de ajuns lucrurile frumoase din via\u021ba lor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu cred c\u0103 oamenii sunt tri\u0219ti prin natura lor. Poate doar unii dintre ei. Dar ceilal\u021bi ar trebui s\u0103 se bucure de via\u021ba pe care o duc \u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 lucruri care le plac, care \u00eei ajut\u0103 s\u0103 se cunoasc\u0103 mai bine \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eei cunoasc\u0103 mai bine pe cei din jurul lor. \u00cen loc de bucurie, oamenii de azi sunt frustra\u021bi, agresivi, nervo\u0219i, pu\u0219i pe ceart\u0103 tot timpul \u0219i u\u0219or de condus de al\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 ai opri oamenii de azi \u0219i i-ai \u00eentreba unde se gr\u0103besc, nu \u021bi-ar da o explica\u021bie, pentru c\u0103 nici ei nu \u0219tiu unde se gr\u0103besc, dar se gr\u0103besc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 i-ai \u00eentreba ce p\u0103rere au despre via\u021ba altora, s-ar gr\u0103bi s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi r\u0103spund\u0103, judec\u00e2nd pe al\u021bii \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu modul \u00een care \u00ee\u0219i tr\u0103iesc via\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar dac\u0103 le-ai cere s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi vorbeasc\u0103 despre ei \u0219i despre ce cred ei \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu via\u021ba lor, ori \u021bi-ar repeta ce au auzit la al\u021bii, ori \u021bi-ar spune ce cred ei c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 auzi, dar nu ar fi \u00een stare s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spun\u0103 propria lor p\u0103rere. Probabil pentru c\u0103 nu au o p\u0103rere proprie (tr\u0103im vremurile \u00een care este mai u\u0219or s\u0103 copiem ce spun \u0219i ce fac al\u021bii, \u00een loc s\u0103 avem propriile p\u0103reri \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu oamenii sau lucrurile din jurul nostru).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd avem oameni \u0219i lucruri frumoase \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103, de ce ne concentr\u0103m pe ce nu avem? De ce pierdem timpul cu ceea ce au al\u021bii \u0219i cu modul \u00een care putem ob\u021bine ce au al\u021bii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o comunitate (oamenii nu pot tr\u0103i singuri, au nevoie de ceilal\u021bi) \u0219i c\u0103 \u00eentr-o comunitate exist\u0103 ierarhii, reguli, clase sociale, dar de ce ne concentr\u0103m pe ce nu avem, \u00een loc s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de ceea ce avem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00centre o via\u021b\u0103 trist\u0103, frustrat\u0103, plin\u0103 de invidie \u0219i o via\u021b\u0103 pl\u0103cut\u0103, deschis\u0103, plin\u0103 de provoc\u0103ri, oare ce ar alege oamenii de azi? Privind \u00een jur, v\u0103d c\u0103 oamenii au ales s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 confortabil\u0103 (plin\u0103 de lucruri care le dau senza\u021bia c\u0103 sunt \u00een clasa social pe care \u0219i-o doresc), pentru care pl\u0103tesc un pre\u021b \u00een fiecare zi, pre\u021bul fiind lini\u0219tea lor sufleteasc\u0103 \u0219i prezen\u021ba lor \u00een cadrul familiilor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Oamenii din ziua de azi sunt tri\u0219ti, concentra\u021bi, sup\u0103ra\u021bi, \u00een criz\u0103 de timp sau de bani \u0219i neferici\u021bi. Rar \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti oameni care s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103 sau care s\u0103 fie mul\u021bumi\u021bi &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1543"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1543"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1543\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1544,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1543\/revisions\/1544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}