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Tot \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 respect\u0103m ni\u0219te reguli sau s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m reguli care s\u0103 ne ajute s\u0103 navig\u0103m prin lumea de azi, doar c\u0103, m-am trezit \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 ce \u00eei \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m pe copii atunci c\u00e2nd v\u0103d (le ar\u0103t\u0103m) c\u0103 azi totul se negociaz\u0103. De ce s\u0103 mai respecte ei regulile, dac\u0103 observ\u0103 c\u0103 mul\u021bi oameni ajung unde vor dup\u0103 propriile reguli sau pur \u0219i simplu negociind ceea ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 am un r\u0103spuns la \u00eentrebarea din titlul articolului, doar c\u0103 sim\u021beam nevoia s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb (\u0219i s\u0103 \u00eentreb a\u0219a, \u00een general) ce rost are s\u0103 ne chinuim s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m reguli \u0219i s\u0103 respect\u0103m reguli, dac\u0103 \u00een ziua de azi totul se negociaz\u0103, de la locul de munc\u0103 la locul \u00een societate \u0219.a.m.d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 lec\u021bia pe care o primesc tinerii \u00een ziua de azi este c\u0103 dac\u0103 au bani pot s\u0103 aib\u0103 tot ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc, iar dac\u0103 nu, pot s\u0103 negocieze ceea ce au, ceeea ce \u0219tiu, ceea ce sunt \u00een schimbul unui loc de munc\u0103 bun, unui statut social sau unei imagini bune. \u0218i, \u00een condi\u021biile acestea, \u00eei \u00een\u021beleg pe tinerii care nu mai respect\u0103 reguli, pe cei care nu mai cred c\u0103 educa\u021bia este o cale de a ob\u021bine ceea ce vor, pe cei care cred c\u0103 lor nu li se aplic\u0103 respectivele reguli \u0219i pe cei care ocolesc regulile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Negocierea este un lucru normal \u00een lumea de azi, este firesc s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 g\u0103sim solu\u021bii la problemele pe care le avem discut\u00e2nd cu cei care ne pot ajuta sau ne pot \u00eendruma. Dar, \u00een partea personal\u0103 a vie\u021bii, cred c\u0103 negocierea ar trebui s\u0103 lase loc altor metode de rezolvare a situa\u021biilor (comunicare, r\u0103bdare, timp alocat celor dragi etc).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am senza\u021bia c\u0103 membrii societ\u0103\u021bii sunt \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi c\u0103 este \u00een regul\u0103 s\u0103 negocieze orice \u0219i astfel s\u0103 nu mai depun\u0103 niciun efort pentru a ob\u021bine ceva. Nu mai sunt timpurile c\u00e2nd meseria era br\u0103\u021bar\u0103 de aur \u0219i c\u00e2nd \u0219tiam (eram con\u0219tien\u021bi) c\u0103, pentru a ob\u021bine ceea ce ne doream, trebuia s\u0103 muncim mult, s\u0103 pornim de jos pentru a ajunge unde voiam \u0219i s\u0103 ne plac\u0103 \u00eentregul parcurs pentru c\u0103 era vorba de via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A fost o perioad\u0103 \u00een care to\u021bi copiii voiau s\u0103 devin\u0103 vedete de televiziune, acum este o perioad\u0103 \u00een care to\u021bi copiii vor s\u0103 devin\u0103 influenceri (nu \u00eemi place termenul din limba englez\u0103, dar nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 exist\u0103 un termen similar \u00een limba rom\u00e2n\u0103). Pu\u021bini mai sunt cei care vor s\u0103 devin\u0103 doctori, avoca\u021bi, profesori. \u0218i acest lucru spune multe despre a\u0219a zisa evolu\u021bie a omenirii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am mai spus \u0219i \u00een alte articole c\u0103 societatea, pentru a exista, trebuie s\u0103 fie organizat\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 aib\u0103 ni\u0219te reguli clare, dar, mi se pare, c\u0103 ne \u00eendrept\u0103m spre vremuri \u00een care oamenii nu mai vor s\u0103 aib\u0103 sau s\u0103 respecte reguli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Tot \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 respect\u0103m ni\u0219te reguli sau s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m reguli care s\u0103 ne ajute s\u0103 navig\u0103m prin lumea de azi, doar c\u0103, m-am trezit \u00eentreb\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 ce \u00eei \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m pe copii …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1517"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1517"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1517\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1518,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1517\/revisions\/1518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}