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\u00centr-o lume \u00een continu\u0103 mi\u0219care cum este cea de azi, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care vrem s\u0103 planific\u0103m totul \u0219i ne a\u0219tept\u0103m ca lucrurile s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare (s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple) a\u0219a cum vrem sau cum ne dorim, suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 \u00eei ascult\u0103m pe cei din jurul nostru \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eei \u00een\u021belegem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centr-o societate \u00een care oamenii \u00ee\u0219i programeaz\u0103 via\u021ba dup\u0103 cum vor, mai g\u0103sim loc pentru a-i accepta pe cei din jur a\u0219a cum sunt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centr-o vreme \u00een care oamenii vor permanent s\u0103 controleze ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 lor \u0219i celor dragi, suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 putem \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 nu putem controla \u0219i oamenii \u0219i ceea ce simt ei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am tot g\u0103sit \u00een jur, \u00een ultima perioad\u0103, exemple de oameni care au distrus vie\u021bi \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 conduc\u0103 (s\u0103 manipuleze) pe cei din jur, dar \u0219i oameni distru\u0219i pentru c\u0103 nu au vrut (nu au putut?) s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 spun\u0103 cine sunt \u0219i ce \u00ee\u0219i doresc ei de la via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este regretabil atunci c\u00e2nd se rup leg\u0103turi sau c\u00e2nd se distrug vie\u021bi pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tim s\u0103 \u00eei accept\u0103m pe cei din jur a\u0219a cum sunt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fiecare dintre noi \u0219i-a construit o via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i o viziune asupra vie\u021bii sale. \u0218i este normal s\u0103 fie a\u0219a. Doar c\u0103, fiecare dintre noi \u0219i-a construit \u0219i o p\u0103rere despre cei din jur \u0219i are a\u0219tept\u0103ri de la ace\u0219tia \u00een urma p\u0103rerii formate. Doar c\u0103, de multe ori, opinia noastr\u0103 despre o persoan\u0103 este subiectiv\u0103 \u0219i bazat\u0103 pe lucruri pe care le credem sau lucruri superficiale, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 privim dincolo de aparen\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi am trecut printr-o experien\u021b\u0103 de acest gen: avem pe cineva apropiat, de la care a\u0219tept\u0103m s\u0103 fac\u0103 (sau s\u0103 nu fac\u0103) ceva \u0219i suntem dezam\u0103gi\u021bi atunci c\u00e2nd persoana reac\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu totul altfel dec\u00e2t credeam noi. \u0218i ne sim\u021bim tr\u0103da\u021bi (poate este mult spus, dar \u0219tiu cazuri c\u00e2nd chiar a\u0219a s-au sim\u021bit unele persoane) \u0219i frustra\u021bi atunci c\u00e2nd lucrurile nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 a\u0219a cum ne a\u0219teptam noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne este greu s\u0103 \u00eel vedem pe cel\u0103lalt ca pe o persoan\u0103 cu g\u00e2ndire proprie \u0219i cu sentimente proprii \u0219i nu putem \u00een\u021belege de ce nu a reac\u021bionat a\u0219a cum voiam noi, ci a f\u0103cut altceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da, este complicat atunci c\u00e2nd constat\u0103m c\u0103 via\u021ba nu se desf\u0103\u0219oar\u0103 (nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103) dup\u0103 standardele noastre sau dup\u0103 cum ne dorim noi, dar cred c\u0103 este mai important s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m c\u0103 nu putem controla toate aspectele vie\u021bii noastre \u0219i nu putem controla oamenii care fac parte din via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103, dac\u0103 am mai l\u0103sa deoparte din orgoliu \u0219i din \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2nare, din impresia c\u0103 suntem st\u0103p\u00e2nii lumii \u0219i c\u0103 putem controla tot \u0219i am \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 suntem pur \u0219i simplu oameni (uneori supu\u0219i gre\u0219elii) poate am accepta mai u\u0219or c\u0103 oamenii din jurul nostru nu sunt perfec\u021bi \u0219i c\u0103 au \u0219i aspecte din via\u021ba lor care nu se potrivesc cu a noastr\u0103, iar acest lucru nu ar trebui s\u0103 creeze o pr\u0103pastie \u00eentre noi, ci ar trebui s\u0103 ne ajute s\u0103 \u00eei cunoa\u0219tem mai bine.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00centr-o lume \u00een continu\u0103 mi\u0219care cum este cea de azi, \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care vrem s\u0103 planific\u0103m totul \u0219i ne a\u0219tept\u0103m ca lucrurile s\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oare (s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple) a\u0219a …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1291"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1291"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1291\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1292,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1291\/revisions\/1292"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1291"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1291"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1291"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}