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Omul modern are senza\u021bia c\u0103 poate planifica, organiza \u0219i controla totul \u00een via\u021ba lui \u0219i \u00een via\u021ba celor dragi. Pentru o perioad\u0103 de timp, fiecare dintre noi crede c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i conduce propria via\u021b\u0103 pe drumul pe care crede c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie. P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ceva sau \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219te pe cineva care \u00eei demonstreaz\u0103 c\u0103 nu poate controla multe aspecte ale vie\u021bii sale. \u0218i, astfel, ajung unii s\u0103 aib\u0103 depresii, al\u021bii s\u0103 se lupte cu to\u021bi \u0219i cu toate din via\u021ba lor, al\u021bii s\u0103 se resemneze cu a avea un destin dinainte stabilit de altcineva \u0219i tot a\u0219a.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 to\u021bi am avut momente \u00een via\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd credeam c\u0103 avem lumea la picioare, dar \u0219i momente \u00een care parc\u0103 toate lucrurile (\u0219i toate persoanele) erau \u00eempotriva noastr\u0103. Adic\u0103 momente \u00een care sim\u021beam c\u0103 putem conduce lumea \u0219i putem controla tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103, dar \u0219i momente \u00een care sim\u021beam c\u0103 via\u021ba noastr\u0103 este un haos \u0219i c\u0103 nu \u0219tim cum s\u0103 ie\u0219im din astfel de momente (st\u0103ri).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am prezentat extremele acestei situa\u021bii, pentru a m\u0103 face \u00een\u021beleas\u0103. Este normal s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 control\u0103m ceea ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103, doar c\u0103, am senza\u021bia c\u0103 omul modern, \u00een dorin\u021ba de a avea ce \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te (confort, nivel de trai bun etc), vrea s\u0103 controleze absolut tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba sa, dar \u0219i a celor apropia\u021bi \u0219i ajunge s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 le \u0219tie pe toate dict\u00e2ndu-le celor din jur cum s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i tr\u0103iasc\u0103 via\u021ba sau cer\u00e2ndu-le s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la anumite standarde stabilite de el sau de societate, uit\u00e2nd c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi este diferit, c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te alte lucruri de la via\u021b\u0103, c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi vede \u00een felul lui via\u021ba \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 a\u0219a cum consider\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Din dorin\u021ba de a avea tot ce \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te \u00een cel mai scurt timp, omul modern \u00ee\u0219i planific\u0103 toate aspectele vie\u021bii, iar dac\u0103 nu ajunge unde \u0219i-a propus c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a propus se consider\u0103 un ratat sau consider\u0103 c\u0103 via\u021ba lui nu are sens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Omul modern uit\u0103 c\u0103 nu este un robot programat s\u0103 fac\u0103 un lucru la un moment dat, uit\u0103 c\u0103, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 minte, mai are \u0219i o inim\u0103, c\u0103 via\u021ba este o aventur\u0103, c\u0103 este unic\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 trebuie tr\u0103it\u0103 din plin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Degeaba c\u0103ut\u0103m re\u021bete pentru vie\u021bi de succes, pentru c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi poate avea o via\u021b\u0103 de succes doar tr\u0103ind a\u0219a cum a sim\u021bit, a\u0219a cum a crezut, gre\u0219ind, dar asum\u00e2ndu-\u0219i gre\u0219eala, av\u00e2nd experien\u021be frumoase al\u0103turi de oameni frumo\u0219i \u00een locuri frumoase. Dar toate aceste lucruri vin (\u00ee\u0219i fac loc \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103) atunci c\u00e2nd facem lucruri spontane, c\u00e2nd ne relax\u0103m, c\u00e2nd reu\u0219im s\u0103 sc\u0103p\u0103m de stresul cotidian. \u0218i de nevoia de a controla tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu noi, de a controla ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een jurul nostru \u0219i de a controla ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu cei dragi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Omul modern are senza\u021bia c\u0103 poate planifica, organiza \u0219i controla totul \u00een via\u021ba lui \u0219i \u00een via\u021ba celor dragi. Pentru o perioad\u0103 de timp, fiecare dintre noi crede c\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1264"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1264"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1264\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1265,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1264\/revisions\/1265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}