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\u00cen zilele de azi, c\u00e2nd suntem educa\u021bi \u0219i \u00eendoctrina\u021bi s\u0103 urm\u0103m anumite c\u0103i (b\u0103tute de al\u021bii) \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu prea ne auzim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i nu mai suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem ce vrem, mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Am constatat c\u0103 sunt oameni care \u0219i-au pierdut personalitatea, \u0219i-au pierdut vocea interioar\u0103, s-au pierdut pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 fie la nivelul celor din anturaj sau \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 se ridice la un nivel pe care al\u021bii l-au stabilit pentru ei. La maturitate, unii au intrat \u00een tot felul de crize existen\u021biale \u0219i au \u00eencercat s\u0103 se reg\u0103seasc\u0103 (prea pu\u021bini reu\u0219ind efectiv acest lucru), dar majoritatea nici m\u0103car nu au sesizat c\u0103 nu tr\u0103iesc via\u021ba lor, ci pe a altora, dar se declar\u0103 oricum mul\u021bumi\u021bi de ceea ce sunt (sau nu realizeaz\u0103 toate aceste lucruri?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne trebuie mult\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een noi, mult\u0103 analiz\u0103, multe \u00eencerc\u0103ri de autocunoa\u0219tere \u0219i mult\u0103 putere pentru a reu\u0219i s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine. Nu ne iese \u00eentotdeauna, pentru c\u0103 suntem \u00eenconjura\u021bi de oameni care ne influen\u021beaz\u0103 sau de persoane pe care le l\u0103s\u0103m s\u0103 hot\u0103rasc\u0103 pentru noi (\u00een locul nostru?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Este greu s\u0103 putem fi sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, pentru c\u0103, \u00een rela\u021bia cu propria persoan\u0103, nu te po\u021bi ascunde, nu po\u021bi evita lucruri pe care le sim\u021bi, pe care le vezi, care \u00ee\u021bi plac sau care te deranjeaz\u0103 (indiferent ce crede societatea despre toate acestea). Pentru c\u0103 suntem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi (societatea ne educ\u0103 astfel) s\u0103 fim \u00eentr-un anume fel \u00een public, ajungem (din obi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103?) s\u0103 fim \u0219i \u00een intimitate la fel, de\u0219i noi, \u00een realitate, suntem cu totul alt gen de persoane. Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 reu\u0219esc s\u0103 m\u0103 fac \u00een\u021beleas\u0103, dar o s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 dau un exemplu: cineva care impresioneaz\u0103 \u00een public prin agresivitate (\u00ee\u0219i construie\u0219te o carier\u0103 sau devine cunoscut astfel), sigur \u00een intimitate nu poate s\u0103 fie la fel de r\u0103zboinic, dar cei apropa\u021bi vor avea de suferit pentru c\u0103 nu va reu\u0219i s\u0103 ias\u0103 din modul agresiv c\u00e2nd va p\u0103\u0219i pe u\u0219a casei sale sau a celor dragi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cred c\u0103 sunt multe momente \u00een via\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu suntem sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine (nu vrem s\u0103 accept\u0103m unele lucruri sau vulnerabilit\u0103\u021bi ale noastre, vrem s\u0103 fim valida\u021bi sau confirma\u021bi de al\u021bii, credem c\u0103 avem totul, dar, de fapt, avem doar ce credeam c\u0103 ne doream, nu ce ne dorim cu adev\u0103rat etc), dar, dac\u0103 reu\u0219im, chiar \u0219i din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, avem \u0219anse s\u0103 prelu\u0103m fr\u00e2iele vie\u021bii noastre \u0219i s\u0103 tr\u0103im a\u0219a cum ne dorim \u0219i cum merit\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0219a c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 re\u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 fim sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine (sau s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m, dac\u0103 nu am f\u0103cut acest lucru vreodat\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 acum).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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