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De\u0219i \u00een titlul articolului vorbesc despre oameni superficiali, m\u0103 voi referi la o persoan\u0103 superficial\u0103, care m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 analizez mai bine \u00een ultima perioad\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eram sup\u0103rat\u0103 pe mine pentru c\u0103 nu \u0219tiam mai nimic despre respectiva persoan\u0103 \u0219i nici nu m-a interesat vreodat\u0103 acest lucru. Pur \u0219i simplu nu \u00een\u021belegeam de ce reac\u021bionam astfel, pentru c\u0103, \u00een general, \u00eemi place s\u0103 interac\u021bionez cu oamenii, s\u0103 aflu lucruri despre ei, s\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 \u00eei cunosc. M\u2013am \u00eendoit de mine \u00eens\u0103mi pentru c\u0103 a\u0219 fi vrut s\u0103 ajung s\u0103 cunosc persoana \u0219i, pur \u0219i simplu, nu reu\u0219eam. Am aflat, \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor, lucruri despre via\u021ba ei, dar \u0219i lucruri pe care mi le-a prezentat cum a vrut, nu cum au avut loc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M-au b\u00e2ntuit chiar c\u00e2teva zile toate aceste g\u00e2nduri p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd am g\u0103sit r\u0103spunsul la \u00eentreb\u0103rile \u0219i nel\u0103muririle mele: persoana era at\u00e2t de superficial\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t, c\u00e2nd d\u0103deai la o parte ceea ce se vedea, nu r\u0103m\u00e2nea nimic de cunoscut. Am constatat c\u0103 \u00een spatele imaginii pe care \u0219i-o crease despre ea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i, nu mai era nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Persoana respectiv\u0103 este produsul societ\u0103\u021bii de azi: form\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 fond, reclam\u0103 \u0219i at\u00e2t, copert\u0103 de carte. A f\u0103cut ce a \u0219tiut pentru a avea tot ce \u00ee\u0219i dorea \u00een via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i a reu\u0219it s\u0103 aib\u0103 toate acele lucruri, dar, f\u0103c\u00e2nd doar ce voiau ceilal\u021bi sau f\u0103c\u00e2nd totul doar pentru a ob\u021bine ce se a\u0219teptau ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103, s-a pierdut pe ea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i. A devenit ce se a\u0219teptau al\u021bii s\u0103 devin\u0103 sau ce credea ea c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 fie, dar, \u00een cadrul acestui proces, nu mai \u0219tie cine este. \u0218i nu mai reu\u0219e\u0219te s\u0103 le arate celorlal\u021bi cine este.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Astfel am aflat c\u0103 nu aveam de ce s\u0103 m\u0103 simt vinovat\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u00eemi doream s\u0103 cunosc persoana respectiv\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu aveam ce s\u0103 cunosc (nu era nimic de cunoscut).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De obicei, \u00eencerc s\u0103 v\u0103d oamenii dincolo de aparen\u021be, de imaginea pe care \u0219i-o fac \u0219i de ceea ce las\u0103 s\u0103 se vad\u0103. Prefer oamenii asuma\u021bi, indiferent c\u0103 sunt sau nu de acord cu ei, indferent dac\u0103 \u00eemi plac sau nu, dar prefer oamenii adev\u0103ra\u021bi, cei care nu se prefac atunci c\u00e2nd spun ori simt ceva sau c\u00e2nd reac\u021bioneaz\u0103 la ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o societate \u00een care, de mici, suntem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 ne adapt\u0103m (este termenul frumos pentru a spune s\u0103 ne l\u0103s\u0103m manipula\u021bi) pentru a deveni ce a\u0219teapt\u0103 al\u021bii s\u0103 fim \u0219i adev\u0103ratele personalit\u0103\u021bi ajung s\u0103 fie at\u00e2t de bine ascunse \u00een interiorul nostru, \u00eenc\u00e2t, \u00een unele cazuri, nu mai ies la iveal\u0103 vreodat\u0103 (iar persoana tr\u0103ie\u0219te o via\u021b\u0103 care nu e a ei, dar nu este \u00een stare s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i ia via\u021ba \u00een propriile m\u00e2ini), iar \u00een alte situa\u021bii, omul distruge u\u0219or lucruri pentru care a muncit \u0219i a luptat o via\u021b\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 (pentru c\u0103 a constatat c\u0103 nu \u0219i le-a dorit cu adev\u0103rat). <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
De\u0219i \u00een titlul articolului vorbesc despre oameni superficiali, m\u0103 voi referi la o persoan\u0103 superficial\u0103, care m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 analizez mai bine \u00een ultima perioad\u0103. Eram sup\u0103rat\u0103 pe mine …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1229"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1229"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1229\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1230,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1229\/revisions\/1230"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}