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\u00centr-o lume \u00een care este pre\u021buit\u0103 superficialitatea, \u00een care majoritatea lucrurilor \u0219i oamenilor sunt false\/fal\u0219i sau contraf\u0103cute\/pref\u0103cu\u021bi, \u00eentr-o societate condus\u0103 de oameni care \u00ee\u0219i dau demisia pe re\u021bele sociale sau care \u00ee\u0219i anun\u021b\u0103 strategiile pe acelea\u0219i re\u021bele sociale, mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De fapt, \u00eentrebarea ar fi dac\u0103 mai \u0219tim cine suntem, dincolo de obliga\u021bii sociale, dincolo de c\u0103utarea veniturilor care s\u0103 ne asigure un nivel bun de trai, dincolo de ceea ce ni se spune s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim sau s\u0103 credem, chiar mai \u0219tim cine suntem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu prea avem pauze \u00een care s\u0103 fim l\u0103sa\u021bi s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la ce ne dorim noi, la ce vrem noi sau cum vedem noi via\u021ba, ni se tot dau lucruri de f\u0103cut sau ni se inoculeaz\u0103 cum s\u0103 g\u00e2ndim, cum s\u0103 reac\u021bion\u0103m sau cum s\u0103 \u00eei judec\u0103m pe ceilal\u021bi. Tot \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 corespundem standardelor sociale (aflate \u00een permanent\u0103 schimbare) uit\u0103m de cel mai important lucru: propria persoan\u0103. Uit\u0103m s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de noi, uit\u0103m s\u0103 ne d\u0103m timp s\u0103 asimil\u0103m informa\u021bii sau s\u0103 ne obi\u0219nuim cu unele lucruri, cu unele decizii sau cu unii oameni. Uit\u0103m cine suntem noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 fim noi \u00een\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vedeam un film zilele trecute despre persoan\u0103 care, angrenat\u0103 \u00een cotidianul agitat, f\u0103cea o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de lucruri, pentru ca, atunci c\u00e2nd a f\u0103cut o pauz\u0103 de c\u00e2teva zile de la via\u021ba ei, s\u0103 constate c\u0103 multe din lucrurile pe care le f\u0103cea pentru a fi eficient\u0103, de fapt nu \u00eei pl\u0103ceau \u0219i le f\u0103cea pentru ceilal\u021bi. Mi s-a p\u0103rut interesant faptul c\u0103, abia c\u00e2nd a ie\u0219it din mediul obi\u0219nuit \u0219i c\u00e2nd a fost obligat\u0103 s\u0103 fie ea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i (s\u0103 fie sincer\u0103?) \u0219i nu a fost judecat\u0103 pentru ceea ce era, a aflat multe lucruri despre propria persoan\u0103. Oare ce am descoperi fiecare dintre noi despre noi \u00een\u0219ine, dac\u0103 ne-am da timp \u0219i dac\u0103 ne-am da \u0219ansa s\u0103 lu\u0103m o pauz\u0103 adev\u0103rat\u0103 de la grijile \u0219i problemele zilnice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00centrebarea mea este: dac\u0103 putem fi noi \u00een\u0219ine, \u00een societate, \u00een rela\u021bia cu ceilal\u021bi? Suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 ne accept\u0103m a\u0219a cum suntem \u0219i s\u0103 nu ne transform\u0103m \u00een ceea ce ne cred al\u021bii sau ce a\u0219teapt\u0103 al\u021bii de la noi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218tim s\u0103 spunem nu lucrurilor care nu ne fac bine \u0219i s\u0103 ne \u00eenconjur\u0103m de oameni care ne fac bine \u0219i ne dau st\u0103ri de bine? \u0218tim s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bine \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 scoatem profit din tot ce ne \u00eenconjoar\u0103? Putem s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m sincer de oameni, locuri \u0219i lucruri care ne influen\u021beaz\u0103 pozitiv \u0219i s\u0103 le oferim un loc important \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 sau nu suntem \u00een stare s\u0103 ie\u0219im din cotidian \u0219i ne este fric\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 fim noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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