{"id":1102,"date":"2022-08-06T10:06:10","date_gmt":"2022-08-06T07:06:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1102"},"modified":"2022-08-06T10:18:10","modified_gmt":"2022-08-06T07:18:10","slug":"cand-suntem-obositi-sau-epuizati-mai-putem-sa-ne-bucuram-de-fericire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1102","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2nd suntem obosi\u021bi sau epuiza\u021bi ne mai putem bucura de fericire?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd ajungem acas\u0103 dup\u0103 o zi de munc\u0103, unde ne apuc\u0103m de lucruri care a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 fie rezolvate \u0219i c\u00e2nd termin\u0103m cu toate acestea, c\u00e2nd suntem at\u00e2t de obosi\u021bi \u00eenc\u00e2t nu mai reu\u0219im s\u0103 ne exprim\u0103m astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 ne facem \u00een\u021bele\u0219i de ceilal\u021bi, \u00een astfel de circumstan\u021be ne mai putem bucura de fericire?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am impresia c\u0103, (pre)ocupa\u021bi s\u0103 rezolv\u0103m problemele cotidiene (profesionale sau personale sau sociale), strecur\u00e2ndu-ne printre comisioane \u0219i obliga\u021bii \u0219i griji, uit\u0103m s\u0103 fim noi \u00een\u0219ine \u0219i s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de via\u021b\u0103. Uit\u0103m s\u0103 tr\u0103im \u0219i uit\u0103m c\u0103 via\u021ba noastr\u0103 pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt este limitat\u0103 (ca timp) \u0219i c\u0103, \u00een loc s\u0103 ne pierdem \u00een conflicte f\u0103r\u0103 sf\u00e2r\u0219it sau f\u0103r\u0103 rost, \u00een nevoia de a demonstra c\u0103 suntem cineva sau de a fi valida\u021bi de cei din anturajul nostru, prioritatea noastr\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fie propria noastr\u0103 fericire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen via\u021b\u0103, avem mereu surprize nepl\u0103cute sau descoperim lucruri (sau oameni) care nu ne plac. \u0218i atunci nu ar fi mai bine s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m s\u0103 ne \u00eenconjur\u0103m de lucruri frumoase \u0219i de oameni care ne fac s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim bine c\u00e2nd suntem noi \u00een\u0219ine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred c\u0103 uit\u0103m c\u0103 singura noastr\u0103 obliga\u021bie \u00een via\u021b\u0103 este s\u0103 avem o via\u021b\u0103 bogat\u0103 \u00een amintiri (de care s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021be) \u0219i \u00een care s\u0103 experiment\u0103m sentimente, s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m lucruri noi, s\u0103 r\u0103spundem provoc\u0103rilor \u0219i s\u0103 savur\u0103m fiecare zi pe r\u00e2nd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Atunci c\u00e2nd zilele seam\u0103n\u0103 una cu cealalt\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd nu ne amintim ce am f\u0103cut perioade lungi de timp (pentru c\u0103 nu am f\u0103cut nimic deosebit) \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 am intrat \u00een rutin\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103, de\u0219i uneori ne place, \u00een realitate ne vom plictisi cur\u00e2nd \u0219i vom \u00eencerca s\u0103 ie\u0219im din starea respectiv\u0103 (un om plictisit nu este un om fericit).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe de alt\u0103 parte, pentru fiecare dintre noi fericirea \u00eenseamn\u0103 altceva. Pe unii aventura \u0219i pericolul \u00eei ajut\u0103 s\u0103 fie ferici\u021bi, iar pentru al\u021bii via\u021ba lini\u0219tit\u0103 este visul lor dintotdeauna. Unii \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eembine provocarea cu rutina, al\u021bii cred c\u0103 doar tr\u0103ind la maximum sau pe ascuns pot fi ferici\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 suntem diferi\u021bi, ne dorim lucruri diferite, iar acest lucru \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 doar noi \u0219tim cum putem ferici\u021bi \u0219i de noi depinde s\u0103 fim ferici\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Doar c\u0103 este destul de complicat s\u0103 fim ferici\u021bi sau s\u0103 ne bcuur\u0103m de fericire \u00een lumea de azi, \u00een care nivelul de trai este important \u0219i alerg\u0103m permanent dup\u0103 asigurarea confortului personal \u0219i al familiei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd ajungem destul de obosi\u021bi acas\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd nu mai avem r\u0103bdare, \u00een\u021belegere \u0219i nici timp pentru cei dragi sau pentru lucrurile care ne plac sau ne intereseaz\u0103 cred c\u0103 nu ne mai putem bucura de fericire. Sau m\u0103 \u00een\u0219el?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>C\u00e2nd ajungem acas\u0103 dup\u0103 o zi de munc\u0103, unde ne apuc\u0103m de lucruri care a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 fie rezolvate \u0219i c\u00e2nd termin\u0103m cu toate acestea, c\u00e2nd suntem at\u00e2t de obosi\u021bi \u00eenc\u00e2t &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1102"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1102"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1102\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1107,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1102\/revisions\/1107"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}