{"id":1084,"date":"2022-07-28T15:40:39","date_gmt":"2022-07-28T12:40:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1084"},"modified":"2022-07-28T15:40:40","modified_gmt":"2022-07-28T12:40:40","slug":"traim-o-era-a-exagerarii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/?p=1084","title":{"rendered":"Tr\u0103im o er\u0103 a exager\u0103rii?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Privind subiectele importante abordate (propuse) de mass-media \u0219i cele promovate online de (aceea\u0219i) mass-media, dar \u0219i de cei cu influen\u021b\u0103, am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume nebun\u0103 (!?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i m\u0103 \u00eentreb \u00een ce direc\u021bie se \u00eendreapt\u0103 lumea, dac\u0103 orice lucru spus de cineva \u00een spa\u021biul public este interpretat \u00een sens negativ \u0219i se demareaz\u0103 adev\u0103rate campanii (unele \u00een favoarea persoanei, altele contra persoanei), de parc\u0103 ar fi sf\u00e2r\u0219itul lumii pentru c\u0103 \u0219i-a exprimat punctul de vedere (solicitat de cineva sau nu) privind un aspect al vie\u021bii sale sau observa\u021bii pe care le-a f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi se pare c\u0103 am luat-o cu to\u021bii razna \u0219i c\u0103 nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 ne vedem de vie\u021bile noastre, nu mai \u0219tim s\u0103 mai tr\u0103im pentru noi, ne intereseaz\u0103 ce fac \u0219i ce spun ceilal\u021bi \u0219i ne \u00eenr\u0103im p\u00e2n\u0103 acolo \u00eenc\u00e2t c\u0103ut\u0103m rea inten\u021bie \u00een orice lucru pe care \u00eel vedem la ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Una este s\u0103 fi reprezentant al puterilor din stat sau al institu\u021biilor publice, pozi\u021bie care te oblig\u0103 s\u0103 fi atent la mesajul pe care \u00eel transmi\u021bi \u0219i la modul \u00een care \u00eel transmi\u021bi \u0219i alta este s\u0103 fi un o normal care \u00ee\u0219i exprim\u0103 p\u0103rerea despre un lucru, o situa\u021bie, o persoan\u0103, un eveniment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sunt sigur\u0103 c\u0103 to\u021bi am avut momente \u00een care nu ne-am g\u0103sit cuvintele pentru a explica exact ce voiam s\u0103 comunic\u0103m sau am ales cuvinte sau expresii nepotrivite, lucru de care ne-am dat seama \u0219i am ac\u021bionat \u00een consecin\u021b\u0103 (ne-am cerut scuze sau am \u00eencercat s\u0103 mai explic\u0103m o dat\u0103 cu alte cuvinte ce voiam s\u0103 spunem).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 recunoa\u0219tem c\u0103 to\u021bi gre\u0219im, c\u0103 omul e supus gre\u0219elii, c\u0103 a gre\u0219i e omenesc (de la latini citire!) poate c\u0103 am reu\u0219i s\u0103 nu mai fim at\u00e2t de rigizi, de r\u0103ut\u0103cio\u0219i de plini de prejudec\u0103\u021bi fa\u021b\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am mai vorbit \u0219i \u00een alte articole (<a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/08\/23\/ce-inseamna-sa-ii-judecam-pe-ceilalti\/\">Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei judec\u0103m pe ceilal\u021bi<\/a> \u0219i <a href=\"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/2021\/07\/14\/despre-usurinta-de-a-judeca\/\">Despre u\u0219urin\u021ba de a judeca<\/a>) despre c\u00e2t de u\u0219or se transform\u0103 oamenii \u00een judec\u0103tori ai comportamentului celorlal\u021bi \u0219i c\u00e2t de repede devenim r\u0103ut\u0103cio\u0219i \u0219i \u00eei \u00eenvinov\u0103\u021bi pe ceilal\u021bi pentru lucruri de care \u0219i noi ne-am f\u0103cut vinova\u021bi, la un moment dat, \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe de alt\u0103 parte, eu nu \u00een\u021beleg c\u00e2nd au timp ace\u0219ti oameni s\u0103 comenteze at\u00e2t, s\u0103 aloce resurse de timp, disponibilitate \u0219i comunicare pentru situa\u021bii care, de cele mai multe ori, nu au nicio leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu via\u021ba lor real\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oare oamenii chiar nu mai \u0219tiu s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 dec\u00e2t online? Doar comentariile online \u0219i post\u0103rile online sunt cele care \u00eei fac s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc? Oare nu au \u00een via\u021ba lor oameni al\u0103turi de care s\u0103 petreac\u0103 timp? Sau nu (mai) au pasiuni c\u0103rora s\u0103 le aloce timp, r\u0103bdare, aten\u021bie, bani?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De ce nu mai \u0219tiu oamenii s\u0103 mai tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een realitate \u0219i se refugiaz\u0103 \u00een online? Oare pentru c\u0103 au senza\u021bia c\u0103, ascun\u0219i \u00een spatele unui calculator, e mai u\u0219or s\u0103 fie ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i? Sau doar descoper\u0103 c\u00e2t de meschini, tri\u0219ti, sup\u0103ra\u021bi, neferici\u021bi, ne\u00een\u021bele\u0219i, invidio\u0219i \u0219i ranchiuno\u0219i sunt?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Privind subiectele importante abordate (propuse) de mass-media \u0219i cele promovate online de (aceea\u0219i) mass-media, dar \u0219i de cei cu influen\u021b\u0103, am ajuns s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1084"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1084"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1084\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1085,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1084\/revisions\/1085"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1084"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1084"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vanitate.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1084"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}